You’ve done it. You’ve gone and ruined a wonderful relationship and you don’t know what you can do now to fix it. That sounds a lot like what you’re dealing with at the moment, doesn’t it? You and your Leo man have had a falling out and you’ve taken all the blame on yourself. It’s understandable. As women we often do that. But now you’re faced with an uncertain romantic future with the man you adore. You wish you knew what you could do to get him to forgive you, but you’re at a loss. Thankfully there are very simple steps you can begin taking today to smooth out the rough patch you and your special Leo man are experiencing right now. If you do the right things, this entire episode will soon be a bitter part of your distant past.
Craft a Very Simple and Direct Apology
Leo men don’t have any use for women who are overly emotional. If you try and apologize by writing a long, very detailed letter explaining the motivation for your actions, he’s not likely to get past the first few sentences. It’s not that he isn’t interested, it’s just that he doesn’t want to get tangled up in any unnecessary emotions.
That’s why it’s essential that you simply tell him you’re sorry for what you’ve done. Typically there isn’t even a need for you to go into depth about what caused you to do what you did. You do need to say you’re sorry for your actions and mean it. That means that a very straightforward apology is always best when you’re dealing with a man born under this star sign. If he senses that you instinctively understand what you did wrong and you’re now regretting it, he’ll take satisfaction in that knowledge.
Show Him That You’ve Changed
One of the most devastating things that any woman can do to a Leo man is to be dishonest to him. If that’s what caused the rift between you two, you have an uphill battle waiting for you. That’s not to say that you can’t overcome this obstacle, but it will take determination and a lot of hard work.
To start that journey on the right foot it’s important that you follow up your apology with action. It’s simple enough to tell your guy you’re sorry but you absolutely must show him that you mean business. That essentially translates to you following up on your promise to correct your unacceptable behavior.
If you cheated on him, make yourself as available to him as you possibly can. If you insulted him, work hard at showing him that you didn’t mean what you said and if you’ve been pushing him repeatedly for a commitment that he’s not ready for, stop talking about anything more serious than dating.
You absolutely must focus your attention on correcting the problem and showing him, through determined action, that you are serious about changing.
Give Him Some Space to Himself
Sometimes a Leo man just needs a bit of space to decompress after a difficult episode with the women he loves. Although internally you feel driven to sort through what happened between you two, your guy may just need a few days, or a couple of weeks, to let the sharp edge of pain soften.
You must give him this and give it willingly. If you don’t allow him the emotional room he needs, you’re going to risk complicating the situation even more. Leo men are notoriously bad tempered but that anger typically won’t reveal itself unless the man in question feels triggered. That’s why you must respect him and allow him the opportunity to work through the disappointment, frustration or pain he’s feeling on his own.
Every couple must work through their own unique challenges in a way that best suits them. However, when you’re dealing with a Leo man don’t lose sight of his strong personality and his deep need to be loved.
We all make mistakes and your man will recognize that in time. As long as you own the mistake, work to correct it and make good on your promise not to do it again, you two can begin to rebuild the bruised bond so you can be closer than ever before.
If you’re feeling lost and are deeply concerned about your Leo man pulling back, there is a way to get him to want you back now. You don’t have to spend one more day worried about what he’s thinking or feeling. He’s your man, get him back in your arms now.