Why doesn’t he call when he says he will? This is one of those questions women have been wondering about for years? Why is it that a man says he’ll call at a specific time and then hours pass without a word from him? Is it because he’s simply gotten too busy to remember to call? Is it because he doesn’t care about you as much as he claims to? The real reason men don’t call may surprise you and it will also give you some insight into what you can do to ensure he does call when he promises.

The main answer to the question of why doesn’t he call when he says he will is that he sees no reason to. Think about how communication is typically handled within your relationship. Are the one who’ll pick up the slack and call him if you haven’t heard from him? Do you tend to call him during the day to touch base? If you are guilty of this, your guy has no motive to call. He doesn’t have to remember what time he promised to call because he has no intention of ever calling. Why would he, when he knows that before long you’ll call him?

If you want him to start calling when he promises to you’ve got to do just one thing. You’ve got to stop calling him. A great example is if he says he’ll call you at 4 o’clock to firm up your evening plans together and a couple of hours pass and you haven’t heard from him at all. Typically, most women would think nothing of calling him at 6 or 7 o’clock to find out what’s going on. However, if you let the whole evening creep by without contacting him and you let time slip into the next day, he’s going to suddenly realize you’re no longer taking matters into your own hands. A sure fire way of getting a man to call you is to stop calling him.