You’re interested in a Libra man. Who could possibly blame you? These men are confident, outgoing and laid back. They make ideal partners because they are so loyal and they almost always strive to not only be the best partner they possibly can, but the best friend too. You’ve met a Libra man and you feel yourself falling for him. The problem is that you’re just not sure where exactly his heart and head is. You want to ensure he sees you as someone incredibly special so what can you do to make that happen? There’s actually quite a bit any woman can do to make herself utterly irresistible to the Libra. It’s all about understanding the attraction triggers within him and then pressing them one by one.
Be Outgoing and Adventurous
Libra men absolutely adore women who are just as comfortable going to a black tie affair as they are hanging out at the corner bar with friends. Men born under this sign love getting out and having fun and they want a woman on their arm who embraces a busy and active social life too.
If you’ve always been more of a homebody, you may have to shift that in order to get your Libra man’s heart. New experiences are always a good thing and if you two can explore some new adventures together, that makes it even more fulfilling.
Plan some of your own outings and invite the Libra man you’re interested in along. It may be to a friend’s wedding, or perhaps you’ve always wanted to hike a local trail but have never had a partner who was interested. Show the Libra man in your life that each new day with you has the potential to bring something unexpected to his life.
Keep the Drama in Your Life at a Minimum
We all have challenges we must face but when it comes to attracting a Libra man, you’re going to want to tackle those challenges on your own, for the most part. That’s not to say that a man born under this sign isn’t compassionate and caring. It does mean that he doesn’t want to have to play a part in every small hiccup that occurs in your life.
If you’re arguing with a girlfriend over something silly, don’t bring your guy into it. It’s also important that you don’t complain too much about others in front of him. He may start to view you as a negative drama queen and once that happens it’s going to be very hard to shift his attitude.
You’re a strong and capable woman who can deal with her own issues, so ensure that’s what you do. If you bring too much emotional baggage to the relationship, the man you’ve got your sights set on may bolt for the door.
Shower Him with Genuine Compliments
A man born between late September and late October loves a compliment, or two or three. If you can be the person providing the compliments, that’s even better. That’s not to say that you should be throwing random, insincere compliments in the direction of your Libra man. You shouldn’t. Just comment from time-to-time on the qualities he possesses that you admire and love.
He especially wants to feel as though you find him to be the most desirable man on the face of the earth. Obviously you do if you’re intent on capturing his heart. Express your desire for him. Tell him how much you adore the way he wears his hair or the fact that he’s so successful in his chosen career. Make him feel as though you genuinely appreciate him exactly as he is. If you can do that, the Libra will find you incredibly appealing and utterly irresistible.
Respect His Need for Alone Time
When you become involved with a Libra man you have to learn how to accept his need for space. There are moments when these men will seem to almost shut down completely emotionally. They withdraw, they don’t answer phone calls or text messages and they seem to disappear within themselves for days on end.
In order to truly love a Libra man you have to accept that this is just part of his nature. Taking it personally is only going to result in confrontations that will strain the connection. If he feels as though you’re being too demanding when he just needs space, he’ll pull back even more to the point that he’ll break off the connection. It’s human nature to want to protect yourself and that’s exactly what he’ll do if he feels you’re demanding more from him than he can give.
Busy yourself with your own life when this happens. Try calling him once or twice and if you get no response, drop it for a few days. If he sees that you’re not panicking and chasing after him, he’ll love you more for it. Like everyone else, the Libra man just wants to be understood.
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