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Let’s admit it. We all want to feel as though we’re the most important thing in our boyfriend’s life. Every woman wishes for a relationship in which the man she adores puts her first. Unfortunately, most relationships just aren’t like that. If you’re with a man who repeatedly puts his own needs first, that’s incredibly frustrating. You feel second best all the time and you wonder if you’ll ever feel as though your needs and wants really matter. You’ve likely spoken to your guy about what you’re feeling but has anything really changed? If you’re tired of being pushed behind your man’s own needs, now is the time to change it. Unless you want to continue to feel second best to him, you have to take specific actions to shift the dynamic of the relationship so your own needs are being acknowledged and met.
Stop Giving So Much to the Relationship
When you give a man more than you get back, in an emotional sense, you’re living in a very unbalanced relationship. Men are quick to pick up how much a woman is willing to do for them. If you’re the type of woman who drops everything to rush to be with her guy when he calls, that’s sending him a very clear message about how you view yourself. He’ll immediately assume that you place more value on his needs than your own. You must change that.
Starting this moment it’s important that you recognize that the most important person in your life is you. Yes, of course, you love your boyfriend, but he has shown you, through his past actions, that he loves himself more than he loves you. That’s a good indicator that you need to follow his lead, and love yourself more.
If he calls and tells you that he has a free evening and wants to see you, tell him that you’re busy. If you’ve always been the one to tidy up his place because he’s not attentive enough to that, stop doing it. Whatever effort you are putting into the relationship that you believe will make him love you more, you must shift to yourself.
Spend less time tending to your boyfriend’s needs and more time focused on your own needs. He’ll notice the change in you almost immediately and it will send him a very strong message that says that you’re not going to continue to jump through hoops for him.
Don’t Discuss the Relationship with Him Right Now
Men can very quickly tone out a woman when she’s talking non-stop about the relationship and her needs. If you have tried explaining to your boyfriend that you feel that he always puts you second and nothing has changed to this point, bringing it up again isn’t going to do any good or change a thing.
If you suddenly stop talking about it and act somewhat distant and removed, that will make him sit up and take notice. As women, we must recognize that if we continue to accept behavior from the man in our lives that we’re not completely happy with, we’re still sending him a silent message that suggests it’s all okay. Take for instance, the problem of a man who never puts you first. Even if you complain repeatedly to him that you want him to recognize your needs more, and he refuses to do that, the fact that you’re still right there beside him suggests to him that you’re really fine with it.
Dropping all talk about what you feel is wrong with your connection with your boyfriend will make him realize something isn’t quite right. Men respond much better to a woman who is strong, focused and confident.
Refocus on Your Own Life and Interests
When a man senses that a woman needs him to be the center of her world, he will often pull back because he can’t handle the pressure that comes with that. When a couple is in the dating stages of their relationship it’s important for both partners to keep a balanced objective. If you have pushed aside everything in your life to make room for your relationship, your boyfriend may start to resent the fact that you expect him to do the same. That could translate into him never putting you first deliberately as a way of making it clear to you that he relishes having his own life that is separate from you.
You need to start chasing your own interests again. That may be anything from hanging out with your girlfriends more to planning an exotic vacation with your sister. Whatever you feel you have been placing aside in favor of being with your boyfriend should become your focus now.
Many women make the mistake of placing their career dreams on hold while they devote more time to their man. If you’re guilty of this you need to shift that back into place now. The happier, stronger and more fulfilled you are as a woman, the more desirable you will become to your man.
By putting your own interests and needs first, you’ll be demonstrating to your boyfriend, exactly what you need from him. Show him that he’s no longer number one on your priority list and he’ll start working harder to show you that he’s worth that spot by putting you first in his own life.
You’re interested in a Libra man. Who could possibly blame you? These men are confident, outgoing and laid back. They make ideal partners because they are so loyal and they almost always strive to not only be the best partner they possibly can, but the best friend too. You’ve met a Libra man and you feel yourself falling for him. The problem is that you’re just not sure where exactly his heart and head is. You want to ensure he sees you as someone incredibly special so what can you do to make that happen? There’s actually quite a bit any woman can do to make herself utterly irresistible to the Libra. It’s all about understanding the attraction triggers within him and then pressing them one by one.
Be Outgoing and Adventurous
Libra men absolutely adore women who are just as comfortable going to a black tie affair as they are hanging out at the corner bar with friends. Men born under this sign love getting out and having fun and they want a woman on their arm who embraces a busy and active social life too.
If you’ve always been more of a homebody, you may have to shift that in order to get your Libra man’s heart. New experiences are always a good thing and if you two can explore some new adventures together, that makes it even more fulfilling.
Plan some of your own outings and invite the Libra man you’re interested in along. It may be to a friend’s wedding, or perhaps you’ve always wanted to hike a local trail but have never had a partner who was interested. Show the Libra man in your life that each new day with you has the potential to bring something unexpected to his life.
Keep the Drama in Your Life at a Minimum
We all have challenges we must face but when it comes to attracting a Libra man, you’re going to want to tackle those challenges on your own, for the most part. That’s not to say that a man born under this sign isn’t compassionate and caring. It does mean that he doesn’t want to have to play a part in every small hiccup that occurs in your life.
If you’re arguing with a girlfriend over something silly, don’t bring your guy into it. It’s also important that you don’t complain too much about others in front of him. He may start to view you as a negative drama queen and once that happens it’s going to be very hard to shift his attitude.
You’re a strong and capable woman who can deal with her own issues, so ensure that’s what you do. If you bring too much emotional baggage to the relationship, the man you’ve got your sights set on may bolt for the door.
Shower Him with Genuine Compliments
A man born between late September and late October loves a compliment, or two or three. If you can be the person providing the compliments, that’s even better. That’s not to say that you should be throwing random, insincere compliments in the direction of your Libra man. You shouldn’t. Just comment from time-to-time on the qualities he possesses that you admire and love.
He especially wants to feel as though you find him to be the most desirable man on the face of the earth. Obviously you do if you’re intent on capturing his heart. Express your desire for him. Tell him how much you adore the way he wears his hair or the fact that he’s so successful in his chosen career. Make him feel as though you genuinely appreciate him exactly as he is. If you can do that, the Libra will find you incredibly appealing and utterly irresistible.
Respect His Need for Alone Time
When you become involved with a Libra man you have to learn how to accept his need for space. There are moments when these men will seem to almost shut down completely emotionally. They withdraw, they don’t answer phone calls or text messages and they seem to disappear within themselves for days on end.
In order to truly love a Libra man you have to accept that this is just part of his nature. Taking it personally is only going to result in confrontations that will strain the connection. If he feels as though you’re being too demanding when he just needs space, he’ll pull back even more to the point that he’ll break off the connection. It’s human nature to want to protect yourself and that’s exactly what he’ll do if he feels you’re demanding more from him than he can give.
Busy yourself with your own life when this happens. Try calling him once or twice and if you get no response, drop it for a few days. If he sees that you’re not panicking and chasing after him, he’ll love you more for it. Like everyone else, the Libra man just wants to be understood.
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It’s happened yet again. You’ve sent your boyfriend a text and it’s been hours now and there’s absolutely no response. You know he got it, yet he deliberately decided to ignore it. You feel confused, angry and a little bit hurt. You don’t understand why the man can’t take just a moment to acknowledge your message by sending you a text back. Yet he seems oblivious to the fact that his behavior is rude and disrespectful. If you’re like most women, you’re going to take the direct approach and call him out on it. You’ll tell him that it hurts you when he ignores your text messages and you don’t feel important to him. Inside you’re going to feel justified doing this because you know that honest and open communication is the key to a lasting relationship, right? The problem is that each time you bring up the fact that he hasn’t texted you back, your guy is forming a vision within his mind of you being an increasingly bothersome nag.
Stop Sending Him Random Text Messages Now
Each time you send your boyfriend a text message, when he’s ignored the last one, you’re showing him that you’re desperate for his attention. That’s certainly not the way you want him to see you, is it? You want your guy to envision you as a strong, capable woman who is worthy of his utter devotion. You’re never going to get him to see you in that light, let alone treat you in that way, if you keep sending him text message after text message that is ignored.
You can lay the groundwork for a change right now by stopping what you’ve been doing. Don’t send him another text message until you hear back from him. You’re going to find this difficult given the fact that you likely have things you want to share with him. Make a note of those things but don’t text him about them. You can mention them later, in person, when you have his full and undivided attention.
The man has proven that he’s callous with your feelings by ignoring the messages you have been sending. That means that you have to show him how you want him to behave with you. The first step in that lesson is pulling back from him, beginning with no messages. Just vow to yourself that you aren’t going to send another and then stick to it.
Treat Him More as a Friend Than a Boyfriend
You love this man, but his decision to not answer your text messages, is a sign that he doesn’t value the things you are sharing with him. You need to shift the relationship to a place where he’ll begin to rediscover the value in you. The easiest and most effective way to accomplish that is to treat him more as a casual friend than a boyfriend.
You shouldn’t make a major announcement to him signifying your decision to treat him less like a boyfriend. If you do that, you’re completely defeating the purpose. You have to make the shift so subtle that he’ll begin to question whether he’s imagining things.
A good example of how you can accomplish this is to be very cordial with him when he calls, but always be the one to end the conversation first. Tell him that you have plans and you’re just heading out the door but you’ll catch up with him soon. He’ll be baffled.
Also, if he does suddenly start answering your text messages again (and he more than likely will) take your time responding. It’s best to wait several hours or even a day before you text him back and then keep it quick and simple too. Don’t tell him you miss or love him and don’t ask him if he wants to hang out. Your goal is to show him that you’re not going to chase after him anymore.
Get Busy Enjoying Your Own Life
A woman who is unbelievably attractive is also very interesting. If you spend your entire day focused on your boyfriend and sharing each and every mundane occurrence with him, he’s going to bore with you very quickly. That may very well be part of the reason why he’s never texting you back. He’s simply tired of hearing how you don’t do much of anything other than thinking of him.
You have to make yourself less available to him and more available to yourself. In other words, it’s time to embrace your life again. Do that by spending more time with your friends, pursuing your own interests and even looking for a new career path. If you have found yourself obsessing over your boyfriend and he’s become the focal point of your life, that’s not good at all. You have to shift that starting now.
Plan some evening events with your friends. Get out and have fun and leave your cell phone at home so your boyfriend can’t reach you. Obviously, you’re not going to do anything that would jeopardize your relationship with him, but there’s absolutely nothing wrong with hanging out with some girlfriends, laughing and just enjoying yourself.
The fuller your life is, the more interesting and intriguing you’ll become to your boyfriend. If he doesn’t have your full attention, he’ll start chasing after you again and you can be certain that will include lots of text messages being sent from him to you.
There is a way to get your man to love you more than you ever thought possible. You can have the devoted, committed, and loving relationship you always dreamed of with the man you adore.
Being in love with a Gemini man can be both wonderful and challenging. If you’re a woman who has fallen for one of these men you already know that. Gemini men have so many fantastic, endearing and charming qualities. They are intelligent and loyal. These men also are spontaneous and very fun, so be prepared for a lifetime of adventures if you’re fortunate enough to get the Gemini man in your life to want to commit to you. Many women find that these men are slow to take any romantic relationship to the next level. There’s a reason for that and once you understand what it is, you can then work on helping him get over any emotional barriers he may have so he can give himself to you and your future together.
Embrace the Relationship as It Is
Gemini men generally don’t follow their heart into a commitment. They, instead, lead with their head. They think their relationship through before they decide if it’s right for them. They aren’t easily swayed by romantic gestures or heartfelt love letters. They want to know that the partner they choose to spend their life with will be a good fit for them in the long term.
To this end, it’s important that you don’t push your man into a commitment before he’s ready. If you try that tactic he’s likely going to either pull back from the connection, or break it off entirely. He doesn’t want to feel as though he’s being pressured into something that he’s not certain is right for him.
He wants to take his time evaluating how well you two fit together as a couple. That’s why it’s essential that you embrace the relationship in the here and now. Don’t chase after him and don’t constantly talk about where you hope things are headed in the future. Be your honest and genuine self today and that will impress him as he’s considering his future and your possible future together as a married couple.
This is also important in terms of sharing what you’re feeling with him. You may want to scream from the rooftops that you love him and can’t wait to be his wife. If he’s not emotionally ready to hear this, don’t be shocked if he retreats to the point that he’s suddenly too busy to spend time with you. Men born under this sign are easily spooked, so you must allow him to set the tone and the pace of the relationship. He wants to be with someone who is relaxed and not focused on an engagement ring or extravagant wedding.
Keep Him Captivated By Being Interesting
A man born under the astrological sign of the Gemini will typically be highly intelligent. These men crave information and they are often on a lifelong journey to learn as much as they can about whatever they can. If you want to appeal to a man like this it’s important that you adopt his unending need for gaining more and more knowledge.
That’s not to suggest that you should change who you are but there are many benefits for any woman who continues to acquire new information on a daily basis. If you stay abreast of what’s happening in the news, if you read the latest and greatest best sellers and if you pursue an interest in things you find fascinating, you’re going to become a much more attractive person in every aspect of your life.
Your Gemini guy wants to be able to have a conversation with you that includes some depth. He wants to know that you can keep up with him on a debate about virtually anything. If you can do this, it will not only impress him, it will create a bond that will be difficult to break. Gemini men want and need to find a woman who views the world, and all it has to offer, with a sense of wonder.
Don’t Be Afraid to Flirt With Him
Regardless of how long you’ve been with your Gemini, you can be certain that he loves it when you flirt with him. A man like this wants and needs to know that the woman he’s involved with can’t get enough of him. He wants to get flirty text messages occasionally throughout the day and he loves when she tells him there isn’t another man in the world that she finds as attractive as him.
Some relationships cool down over time and in the case of a connection with a Gemini, that can spell early disaster. If he feels that you aren’t putting in the effort to make him feel loved and adored anymore, he may cast his attention elsewhere.
In addition to ensuring you show him how you feel through small gestures on a daily basis, there’s also tremendous value in planning something spontaneous for the two of you to do together. Gemini men aren’t that intrigued by huge, romantic spectacles. They are more taken when a woman puts in an effort to plan an evening or a day date that involves something they love to do.
If your guy is into sailing, plan a weekend sailing trip for the two of you. Or maybe he’s always wanted to take up the sport of scuba diving. Find a local place where you can both take lessons and then plan for a trip a few months from now. Anything you can do that shows that you understand and embrace him and his interests, is going to melt his heart.
Just be certain to show him, through actions and works, on a continual basis how fortunate you feel to be loved by him. If you do this, instead of pushing him repeatedly for a commitment, you are going to make him want to commit to you because he’ll see you as his ideal life partner. Subtlety is the key when you are trying to get a Gemini man to see you as the women of his dreams.
Men are often like a maze to us. One day we feel as though we’re completely on the right path because our guy seems happy and fulfilled. The next day arrives and it appears as though we’ve wandered off into the darkness as he’s pulled back or becomes distant and critical. It’s difficult to know how to react when your man’s mood shifts and he won’t share what he’s feeling with you. Contrary to popular opinion, many men do feel things very deeply. Men can also be incredibly fickle when it comes to love and romance. If your guy shuts down and won’t share what’s going on in his heart and in his head, you don’t have to continue feeling frustrated and lost. Women actually have an innate ability to get their man to express what he feels. You just need to know what to do to get the man you love to feel so close to you that sharing with you becomes normal, natural and extraordinarily comfortable.
Show Him That You’re Completely and Utterly Accepting
One of the main reasons many men don’t share their feelings unconditionally with their mate is that they fear they won’t be accepted. If you are the type of woman who is painfully honest that can work against you when it comes to building a strong communication connection with your man. It’s obviously very important to always be as honest as possible within your relationship but if your man feels that you are going to criticize him, he’ll pull back and shut you out.
You can build a strong base of acceptance if you show him that you love him just as he is. Don’t try and change the man he is and don’t make derogatory comments about him or the choices he has made in his life.
One area that can hugely impact your own connection with your current love is if you have become someone who constantly reminds him how foolish it was to get involved with his ex girlfriend. Many men have regrets when it comes to past loves and if you make fun or point a finger at how unwise his part decisions in love were, you are going to alienate him. You have to be willing to accept him as is, past warts and all. Once your man feels that you love him, in spite of all the baggage he brings to your relationship, he’ll feel closer to you and will be more likely to share his current feelings.
Create a Comforting Environment for Him to Share In
If your world is always filled with drama, you’re going to discover that your man isn’t all that keen on sharing the intimate details of what he’s feeling. The reason is very simple. If he senses that you turn everything into a theatrical circus, he’s not going to want to place himself in the middle of that. If a man believes that his woman will react in an over the top or emotional way, he will keep everything to himself. He doesn’t want to tell you he’s not ready for a commitment or he wants a break if he senses that you’ll fall apart at the seams. You need to show him that you’re emotionally mature enough to handle anything he throws your way.
To accomplish this it’s important to be ready for any curve ball that he may throw in your direction. Always expect the unexpected from him. If he does share some feelings that are difficult for you to absorb, tell him as much in a calm way. Simply state that you appreciate his honesty but you need some time to process what he just shared with you. If you can do this, he’ll feel more inclined to share everything he’s feeling because he’ll know that you can handle it in a mature and rational way.
Don’t Be Too Eager to Always Share Your Innermost Feelings
One of the major hurdles that many couples need to get over is that one person is too quick, too eager or too assertive when it comes to sharing what they feel. Typically women take on this role. We feel so much for the man we’re involved with that we just allow the emotional floodgates to swing open and we start rattling off everything we’re feeling.
If your man isn’t ready to share what he feels with you, he’s going to feel cornered or pressured. If we’re being honest, we can agree that we have a certain level of expectation that comes with sharing our hearts with a man. At the very least we expect him to reciprocate those feelings. If he doesn’t, we feel embarrassed, he feels uncomfortable and the entire dynamic of the relationship changes.
A good rule to follow is to allow him to set the pace for the sharing of feelings. You may worry that this will result in confusion and a string of misunderstandings about what the relationship really is and where it’s headed. When a man falls in love, he wants to share that with the woman of his desire. He wants to do that on his own timetable. He doesn’t want to feel pressured into saying it before he feels completely ready. That’s why you should accept the relationship for what it is, embrace the experiences you have and show him that you’re the type of woman who will give him the emotional room he needs to sort through his feelings. If you can master that, you’ll be well on your way to a deep connection with a man who feels you understand him. He’ll see you as someone who is ready, willing and happy to wait for him to want to share his feelings when he feels ready.
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There’s a very special moment in every romantic relationship that a woman holds her breath for. It’s when your man tells you he loves you. Ideally, he’ll say it first and it will happen in a wonderful, memorable place. You’ll remember everything about the second those fateful words left his lips. The shirt he was wearing, how his hair was styled and what his cologne smelled like will all become important nuances of the moment when you both knew that you were going to be life partners. It all sounds so dreamy and ideal, doesn’t it? From experience, most of us know that it typically doesn’t go that way. He’ll usually blurt out the words at the most inopportune time like when we’re stopped at a red light or during a football game. Regardless of the circumstances of the delivery, the words are still meaningful and relationship changing. Sadly, not all men reach a point where they feel comfortable sharing those words. If it’s now been months or even years and he hasn’t said I love you yet, what exactly does that mean for you and your future with him?
Never Forget How Different You and Your Man Are
I’ve often heard women say that they wish men were more like them. In some ways, that would be wonderful, but essentially we love men because they are men. Your man doesn’t process his feelings the same way you do. If he falls in love with you at first sight, chances are very good that he’s not going to share that news with you until months into the relationship. The same is true of the man who falls in love with his woman at a slow pace. He’s not going to give you updates about what he’s feeling. Men just aren’t wired that way.
Sharing deep and meaningful feelings to a man makes him feel emotionally vulnerable. It’s very much like he’s taking the armor off his heart and he’s putting himself in the line of fire. If you don’t react favorably to his declaration of adoration or if you say something hurtful, it will pain him in a way that nothing else could. A man needs to feel very secure in his relationship before he’ll be ready to blurt out that he loves you.
Pay Close Attention to His Actions Rather Than His Words
So much can be gained from really paying close attention to how your man acts when he’s around you. There are certain behavior patterns that sync with a man who is truly and madly in love. You may believe that he’s not in love unless he says the words, but don’t discount how he treats you. For a man who is struggling with opening himself up to the point where he does indeed feel very vulnerable, his actions can give you great insight into what is in his heart.
A telling example is the man who rushes through his day so that he can spend as much time as possible with the woman he adores. Nothing matters quite as much to him as seeing her smiling face at the end of his workday. The same is true of the man who sends a few text messages or emails during the day. His mind is clearly on the woman he cares for. Any small gestures like this should be viewed for what they are and that’s a strong sign that his heart is focused on the woman in his life.
See His Commitment to You as a Sign of What’s in His Heart
If a man has stopped dating other women and his focus is always just on you, he’s smitten. Men are notorious for wanting to play the field. Once a man stops looking, thinking about and seeing other women you should take note of that. He may not have said that he loves you outright but the fact that he’s lost interest in other attractive women speaks volumes about how he views you.
This is especially clear if he’s suggested that you don’t see other guys or that you two just date exclusively. If he does mention this, it obviously means that he wants you to himself and that generally has a lot more to do with a man’s heart than his ego.
A man in love wants to draw a tight circle around the woman who is the center of his world. He doesn’t want the threat of any other men on the horizon and he doesn’t have eyes for any other women either. His focus is clear and he’ll ask you to focus on him too.
Be Wary of a Man Who Doesn’t Seem Connected Emotionally to You
As much as you want to hope that he does love you, even if he has yet to say it, you do need to be mindful of the fact that his reluctance to express it is based on the fact that he just doesn’t feel it. If you’ve told your boyfriend that you love him and you’re met with dead silence, or he changes the subject very quickly, it’s easy to jump to the assumption that he isn’t in love and just is very uncomfortable talking about the subject at all.
Some men will work hard at avoiding any discussion about feelings. They’ll say things like, “I’m not ready for a serious relationship yet, ” or “love is overrated.” If your guy has expressed similar sentiments to you, you have every right to be discouraged by that. He’s telling you, in a very roundabout and non-compassionate way that he’s just not feeling the same things you are.
It’s up to you to determine whether or not you want to continue to invest yourself in a relationship like this. Granted, over time his position may change and he may decide that he does indeed love you. Perhaps a bit of time apart, as in a short-term relationship “break” might help him see the light. There’s a chance it won’t though.
Just remember that all men are different and even though some are quick to say those three meaningful words, other men just can’t fathom saying, “I love you,” to any woman unless they’re on the verge of proposing to her. It’s up to you to decipher your man’s actions and read between the limes to truly see what’s in his heart.
“He says he misses me all the time!” That’s such a great thing to hear from the man you adore, isn’t it? It brings your spirit up and you feel loved and cherished. Those specific words give a woman a great deal of relationship confidence because they suggest that the man you love thinks about you a lot when you two aren’t together. But does he really? If his actions aren’t backing up those words, which do you put more merit in? Does he try and spend as much time with you as he possibly can or is he saying he misses you and then you don’t hear from him for a week? As much as you want his words to mean he longs for you, don’t be too quick to rush to that judgement.
The phrase, “I miss you so much,” is a go to one for many men. It’s something they say when they want to placate the woman they’re with. If he’s waffling on what he’s feeling and he’s pulled back just a bit, he may say that he misses you because he knows that it will ease your worry. Most men don’t want to deal with a woman who is panicking over the state of the relationship. Instead of telling you that he needs some time or distance, he may just claim he misses you because he knows you’ll find some comfort in that.
You can easily tell if a man really misses you by his actions. If there’s some tangible distance between you two because you live in different cities or one of you is traveling, he’ll be making plans to either fly to see you or he’ll be planning a romantic evening for two on the day you or he arrives back home. If he says he’s unsure of when he’ll have time to see you or his schedule is full at the moment, that’s not a man that is missing you enough to put the wheels in motion to see you.
How to Gauge Your Man’s Sincerity
If you two are in the same place and he has a long list of reasons why he can’t have dinner with you or even a coffee, don’t put too much meaning in his declaration that he misses you. He doesn’t. If he did he’d be moving everything around on his schedule so he could see you in person, even briefly.
It’s so easy to get caught up in the romantic undertones of any relationship. If your man says all the right things you may feel as though you’re being swept away in a tidal wave of adoration and devotion. If his actions aren’t backing up those words, be mindful of your heart. Investing too much of yourself in a relationship with a man who isn’t making himself accessible to you physically or emotionally is a recipe for romantic disaster.
Let his actions speak for him. If he loves you, and does miss you, he’ll make time for you. Men do that when they’re smitten with a woman. If you’re a casual romantic partner, you’ll soon know it by the obvious lack of effort he puts into your connection.
If you’re not happy with your relationship there is a way to improve it. You can have the love you’ve always wanted with the man you desire.
How can you tell if a Gemini man is in love with you? It’s a question you’ve been pondering since that charming Gemini guy walked into your life. He’s great, isn’t he? Most men born under this sign are. They’re fun, carefree and they embrace each and every experience presented to them. He’s special and you’re beginning to feel as though there might be the potential for something meaningful to develop between you two in the future. The only problem is that you have no clue what he’s feeling or thinking. Asking him certainly is an option but you don’t want to come on too strong. Fortunately, there are ways to gain some insight into what exactly he’s feeling without having to back him into a corner by asking countless questions.
Gemini men are amazing partners. They are very attentive and they strive to make the life of the woman they love, ideal. If your guy is starting to fall in love he’s going to be at your beck and call. He’ll make himself available whenever you need him and he’ll be hard to get rid of when you need to focus on other things. A very easy way to tell whether or not he’s feeling emotionally connected to you is by how often he’s initiating contact. Think about the past week or so. Who has called who more? Did your guy call you before you had a chance to call him or were you the one chasing him down? A Gemini who is feeling devoted to a woman will want to be around her as much as possible. He’ll call her several times throughout the day and he’ll move his schedule around just to accommodate hers. If you’re trying to pin him down for a date and he’s constantly got one excuse after another, he’s not in love yet.
How Interested is Your Gemini Man in You?
Does the man you’re involved with seem interested in you? This seems like a silly question but there’s a reason for it. Gemini men are notorious for not getting invested too quickly with women. If he views you as a casual fling, he’s not going to ask too many questions about what’s going on in your world. If you start talking about a problem you may have, he’ll seem disinterested or he may even be so bold as to change the subject. This is disheartening to a woman who feels an emotional attachment to the man in question, but it’s a great barometer for where his feelings are.
When a Gemini man starts to fall in love, he’ll be a sponge in terms of learning about you. He’ll ask endless questions all centered on you and your life. You may even begin to feel uncomfortable with the relentless attention, but it’s definitely a positive sign. He wants to know you to your inner core and you’ll become his absolute favorite subject of conversation.
It’s worth noting that Gemini men do take some time to really fall in love at a deep level with a woman. During the time before that, he may seem disinterested at times to the point that you’ll wonder if he’s contemplating ending the relationship. Work may suddenly take precedence over seeing you or he’ll spend more time with his friends. If he’s the man you believe is meant to be with you, be patient and confident in yourself. If you become overly clingy or too emotional you’ll just risk pushing him away. Take it slow and enjoy the journey. He’ll appreciate that you’re not the dramatic type who wants a commitment too soon.
You can make your Gemini man fall in love with you by pushing certain psychological triggers within him. You can have the relationship of your dreams if you understand exactly how to appeal to his heart.
The question of how to keep a man interested in you is one most of us have asked ourselves at some point. Let’s face it ladies, finding a man is only one part of the equation. Once you’ve passed the point of getting him to fall in love with you, it’s time to start focusing on how to keep him wanting you long term. Relationships change over time and even though he may be chasing after you today like a lovesick puppy that can certainly change tomorrow, next week or next month.
One area that most of us worry over incessantly is other women. The world is full of attractive, vibrant and very desirable women. Your guy probably comes into contact with at least a few of these women on a daily basis. We all know that romance can strike almost anywhere including the workplace. So how do you ensure that your guy stays interested in you and doesn’t allow the allure of some other beautiful woman pull his attention away?
The key is to show him that there isn’t another woman on the face of the earth that can understand him to the extent that you do. That sounds like something of a monumental task, doesn’t it? It’s actually not at all. There are certain things that any woman can do, in her current relationship that will create an invisible bond between her and the man she loves.
Here are just a few examples of things you can do to pull him closer to you and keep him interested forever:
Become his number one supporter. Most of us have learned by the time we’re entering our twenties that there isn’t a perfect man in existence. All men come with a list of positives and negatives. It’s very easy to get caught up in pointing out a man’s negative attributes. Once you start heading down that slippery slope you know that a break up is probably somewhere on the not-too-distant horizon. Learning how to keep a man interested has a lot to do with overlooking all those negatives and focusing squarely on the positives. Tell him constantly how much you love the special things about him. Point out his best qualities and tell him there isn’t another man on the face of the earth who compares to him. Men need to hear this. It helps them feel better about who they are and if it’s coming from the woman they love, that’s even better.
Be spontaneous and keep him guessing. The man in your life wants you to be exciting, spontaneous and mysterious. He doesn’t want to view you as someone who is predictable or boring. Even though it’s very easy to fall into a routine of staying home and cuddling on the couch, avoid that at all costs. Plan evenings that he won’t be anticipating. Arrange to do things he’s never done before whether that’s rock climbing or going to the ballet. You just want to ensure that he never knows which direction you’ll head next. This is truly one of the very best ways to keep a man interested in you long term.
Stay honest and true to him. There is no faster way to lose a man’s interest than to be dishonest with him. Men don’t want to invest themselves emotionally in a woman who isn’t be completely genuine with him. Don’t lie to your guy. It’s just as important to stay true and devoted to him. A man’s ego takes a major hit if he suspects that his woman is interested in someone else. Even if it’s just harmless flirting with one of his friends – it will hurt him. Don’t cross that line ever. If you truly are focused on keeping him interested in you –honesty and devotion have to be your number one priorities.
You can keep his interest for as long as you want once you understand how to appeal to his heart.
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We all have expectations for the people in our lives. In our workplace we expect our colleagues to treat us with respect and we return that favor. In the case of our everyday interactions we expect strangers we cross paths with to be cordial and courteous. There’s a different level of expectation that is born out of a romantic relationship. As a woman you expect certain things from your man and he has a silent list of expectations for you as well. Are you aware of what they are? It’s likely you’re not because most men don’t lay out, in simple form, what they want and hope their partner will bring to their lives. Fortunately, you can gain that insight on your own so you know how better to meet his needs and keep the relationship on a positive track.
There are specific things your man wants from you including:
Honesty. This is a big one. Betrayal is something that most men can’t shoulder. If you tell him a small white lie and he discovers the untruth you can expect the relationship to crumble. It doesn’t matter if the deception centered on why you couldn’t see him or if it was because you were interested in another man. A lie, any lie, is a deal breaker for most men. Keep everything in line with the truth and you’ll already be fulfilling one of the most important expectations he has.
Fidelity. This should go without saying but it’s a crucial part of a healthy, balanced relationship. If you expect fidelity from him, he’s expecting the very same from you. There’s no bigger blow to a man’s ego than to discover that the woman he loves has chosen to spend time with another man. Stay true to him and if you feel you can’t, tell him and end the relationship. He wants and needs you to be devoted to him.
Emotional support. Just as we need emotional support from the man we’re involved with, he needs the same from you. Men may not be as transparent when it comes to showing what they feel, but they certainly can be just as sensitive, if not more, than we are. He wants to believe that you are always in his corner and will always have his back. Prove to him that’s the case by being in tune with his feelings. Talk to him regularly about what he feels and make certain he knows that you’re always available if, and when, he needs you.
Friendship. Sure your guy already has his buddies to spend time with but he needs friendship from you as well. When a couple are friends, their romantic relationship has even more depth. Their connection runs through many layers and they share more. We all need a close friend to confide in at times when life throws curve balls our way. If you can become this to your man, he’ll feel grateful for your presence in his life. Be a friend when he needs you to be.
Understanding. Men can get into nasty moods, just as we do. Most of us are programmed to want to understand why our guy is acting in a negative way so we chase him around wanting to know what’s wrong. He needs you to understand that sometimes he just has to be quiet or sullen or alone. Each time a man is in a grumpy mood that doesn’t automatically mean it’s because of his relationship. Give him space to work through his own feelings. If he wants to talk with you, he will. Men expect the women in their lives to allow them the chance to sort through things on their own. Do that for him, and he’ll be eternally grateful.
By gaining a firmer understanding of what your man expects from you, you can strengthen the connection you two share almost instantaneously. Always remember that even though men and women are incredibly different in love and romance they want many of the same things. Chances are if you’re expecting something from him, he’s expecting the very same thing from you.
Every woman has the power to make her man fall in love with her. You can have a deep, undying emotional connection with him.
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