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When a Leo man ignores you it can leave you sitting in a puddle of confusion. In your mind, everything between the two of you was going great. Then suddenly he started to pull back until he just stopped talking to you altogether. Try as you might you can’t figure out what went so horribly wrong. The truth is that Leo men can be quite fickle and even one unintended and innocent mistake on the part of a woman can push him away for good. Luckily, that mistake can be undone if you know how to handle it.
The first thing you have to give some thought to when a Leo man ignores you is how much attention you were giving him before he pulled back. One aspect of a Leo’s man personality that you always have to stay focused on is his need for attention. We all want to feel adored and cherished by the person we’re involved with. For Leo men this is no exception. If you had been preoccupied or had pushed him down your priority list as of late, that would definitely cause a shift in his feelings for you.
Leo men can also hold a grudge at times, even over seemingly innocent things. One of the most endearing qualities of these men is their passion and their desire to be deeply connected to the women they love. If you said something that hurt him, he may not be too quick to let it go. It will linger and fester within him and if he doesn’t feel that you are really remorseful he’ll separate himself from you.
Don’t be too quick to give up when a Leo man ignores you. Right now, he’s just stewing within his feelings but that won’t last forever. You can pull him back closer by reestablishing a connection with him. Start by apologizing if you did indeed do something that you know hurt him or upset him. Be direct and genuine. Don’t try and explain away your behavior as Leo men are all about owning who you are as a person. He’ll respect you more if you come clean and just try and make amends.
You already know full well how stubborn Leo men can be. Pushing him to pay you more attention will only backfire. He may get so frustrated and annoyed with your repeated attempts to get his attention that he’ll cut things off forever.
Instead, take it slow and move along at the pace he sets. Stay in contact with him by sending him a brief email or text message every few days. Keep the subjects light and fun. He’ll see that you’re making an effort and it will definitely spark his interest all over again.
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“I hurt my boyfriend’s feelings.” Most of us have unfortunately said this at some point. The moment when you first realize that what you did or said stung your boyfriend is the very moment you want to crawl in a hole and hide. It’s horrible to hurt the person you care about the most. Even though he may tell you that he’s over it, things aren’t the same. Perhaps he’s pulled back a bit or he’s less affectionate. If you leave this unattended, he may start to resent you for the pain you caused him and inevitably that’s the beginning of the end of your relationship. You have to act now if you want to smooth things over and get him to feel closer to you again.
Obviously, it goes without saying that an apology is critical if you’ve hurt the feelings of the man you love. How you handle the apology is very important. What most women are inclined to do is to continue to apologize after the first attempt. If he doesn’t seem to be accepting the apology, don’t badger him into doing so. If you’ve tried to make amends with him, that’s all you can do. Resorting to buying him things or sending him love letters won’t help. In fact, they’ll damage things more because he’ll feel as though you’re trying to buy back his love. Just tell him genuinely and sincerely that you’re sorry and leave it at that.
It’s inevitable that a man will pull back if he’s been hurt. All human beings do. It’s part of our emotional defense mechanism. How you handle his need for space will determine the future of your relationship.
You need to draw on your maturity after you’ve hurt your boyfriend’s feelings and give him time to process and absorb it. He may need a break from you. If you fight him on that, you’re literally suggesting to him that his needs matter little compared to yours. However, if you accept that you did hurt him and to get over that he needs some space, he’ll be touched that you respect him that much.
The key is to not let him slip away. Even if he has pulled back, be supportive and compassionate. Let him know that you’re always available to talk with him about anything. Once he’s put some time and distance between himself and the episode that hurt him, he’ll be open to forgiveness. Be patient and understanding and he’ll see the good in you again.
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You had sex with him on the first date. I’m going to go out on a limb here and guess that you regret that decision. It likely wasn’t even so much as a decision as a compulsion. He was attractive, you were feeling adventurous and things just happened. Now, looking back you wish you would have had more self control. Perhaps he hasn’t called since or he just keeps telling you he’s too busy to see you again. Regardless, you’ve got the message he’s sending loud and clear. His interest in you fell off the side of a cliff and now you need to find a way to get it back.
The fact that you had sex with him on a first date can’t be undone. As much as you wish you could hop in a homemade time machine and transport yourself back to that date, you can’t. The deed is done and his reaction is what it is. You have to focus on moving forward and showing him that there’s a lot more to you than what goes on behind closed doors. It’s easy to do that if you understand the steps to take.
Step one is simple enough. You’re going to make it clear that you’d enjoy seeing him again. This time though you’re going to give him some subtle hints about what your date will entail and intimacy isn’t going to be a part of that. Ask him to meet you at a restaurant or coffee bar. Keep things light and don’t talk about your mistimed intimacy. You don’t want to bring anymore attention to that. If he brings it up, let him share what he feels and then just tell him once that it’s not your typical pattern of behavior. Don’t launch into a speech about how you’ve never done it before but you were just so carried away by lust. He doesn’t need to hear all that.
It’s crucial that you don’t sleep with him for at least a few weeks. You’re going to allow your body language to speak for you when it comes to getting this message across to him. If you make an announcement to him about how you’re not going to jump back into bed with him for the foreseeable future, he’ll disappear. Arrange to meet him instead of having him pick you up and don’t allow yourself to be in a position where you’re alone with him and intimacy is an option. Just keep things friendly and flirtatious. If you do that, he’ll see all the other, much more fascinating, parts of you.
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“He says I’m too possessive.” If you’ve been saying this and you’re not worried about the state of your relationship, you should be. The moment a man tells a woman she’s too possessive is the moment he’s considering ending the relationship. Although you may think that it’s a sign of how much you adore him, he doesn’t. He sees it as a problem, a big problem.
To a man a woman who is possessive is unappealing. The reasons are many but it all hinges on how he thinks you view yourself. A good example is if he tells you that he’s going to hang out with his friends instead of you for the evening. You get upset and tell him that if he loved you, he’d spend that time with you. To you that makes perfect sense given the fact that you’re a couple. To him it feels as though you think you have him on a very short leash that you control. He’ll feel suffocated and he’ll view you as being too domineering. If you do this even once, it does have an impact on how he feels about you.
It becomes even more of a problem if he has female friends or co-workers and you have a negative attitude about them. Other women are a fact of life. They exist and your man will have to come in contact with them, talk with them and interact with them. It’s just how it is. If you cop a negative attitude each time you catch him talking to a woman or you grill him with questions each day when he comes back from work that will wear thin very quickly. Not only will it upset him but it will make him believe that you’re doing it because you have zero self esteem. Jealousy is never an attractive quality and if it’s a constant part of your persona, he’s going to pull back very quickly.
All men need their own interests and their own lives. If there is something that your guy enjoys doing on the weekends or evenings and you try and make him feel guilty for doing it instead of being with you, he’ll again think it’s a sign of you wanting to possess him. Being in a balanced relationship encompasses loving everything about the other person and letting them be who they are. If you try and monopolize all of your man’s attention and time, you’re actually stealing away his life and the person he is. This is a crucial relationship mistake that you just don’t want to make.
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What ruins a relationship? If you feel as though you’ve met a man and the potential is there for an amazing relationship you want to avoid doing anything that may make him pull back. Because men don’t come with guidebooks we’re typically left to our own devices, and the insight of our friends, to determine what we need to do to capture his heart and keep it. We all make mistakes though and sometimes those missteps are enough to derail the entire relationship. Al the promise disappears, he’s suddenly very distant and it’s only a short time until it fizzles out and ends. If you don’t want that, you need to recognize what the major mistakes are that women make so you can avoid them.
Jealousy is often what ruins a relationship. It’s natural for a woman to feel territorial when she’s met a man that she’s falling for. Good men are hard to find and once you have one in your life you certainly don’t want anyone else stealing him away. You have to be mindful of how he perceives your jealousy though. To men it’s not romantic or endearing when a woman gets upset because he’s talking to an attractive female. To man it’s a sign of someone who lacks self esteem. Your jealousy of other woman suggests to him that you feel threatened by them. Don’t show that type of behavior to a man, ever.
Getting too serious too quickly is another way that a budding relationship can quickly fall apart. Although it’s understandable why you’d want to tell him that you’re falling in love with him, unless he’s ready to hear it, it’s going to scare him. Most men want to set the pace for their relationships. If they feel cornered or pressured into revealing what they feel too soon, they’ll sometimes break off the relationship. You don’t want this to happen so pace yourself when it comes to telling him exactly what you feel.
Another thing that most women don’t pay enough attention to is all the drama they bring into the relationship. We all have problems that we struggle with but if you constantly complain about every small thing to your guy, he’s going to get tired of being around you. Try your best not to do this. Talk to your girlfriends if you have things you’re struggling with that involve work or friends. Don’t present it all to your man too soon. He’ll think you aren’t mature enough to handle the pressures of life and no one finds that appealing.
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So you think you had sex with him too soon? Isn’t lust a confusing thing sometimes? It drives us to do things we normally wouldn’t and then we’re left too regret it. Every woman knows that sleeping with a guy too early in the relationship can bring any future with the man to a screeching halt. Men make assumptions based on when we’re first intimate with them and general speaking you’re going to lose some of your appeal if it happens within the first couple of dates. If you really like the man and he’s started to pull back because you’ve slept with him already, you can change that and get him interested all over again.
The first thing you’ve got to remember if you had sex with him too soon is you can’t turn back the hands of time. You don’t go a do-over on this. The deed has been done and it’s time to look to the future. If he’s starting to call less often or if he comes up with excuses for why he can’t see you, he’s definitely starting to lose interest. One easy way to get that back is to take the romantic aspect of the relationship out of the equation, for now. Often, when a woman sleeps with a man too early he thinks she wants a commitment. He’ll pull back because he’s scared of that. Show him that you’re just as happy to be his friend. Ask him out for lunch or a coffee. Don’t chase him down trying to line up some evening plans with him. Give him a little space but let him know you’re still available, but not to sleep with.
If you two are still going out, you’re probably wondering how you should handle intimacy with him. If you slept with him too soon your initial reaction may be to pull back completely and not sleep with him again right now. If you do that he’ll wonder what is going on with you. The key is to time intimacy carefully and make sure it’s not the sole focus of your relationship. Make plans to go out sometimes and then don’t stay over at his place and don’t invite him over to yours. Make it clear, through your actions, that you’re not there just to have sex with him. Ensure he sees that you’re fun in every setting.
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