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He’s Emotionally Distant! Why This Happens and What You Need to Do Now

Something between you and your boyfriend has changed but you can’t quite put your finger on it. Perhaps you’ve been asking him what’s wrong and the answer you’re continually greeted with is, “nothing.” Your heart tells you that it’s something and you can’t just let it go. You adore him and you want a relationship that’s as perfect as it possibly can be. But he seems emotionally distant lately and you’re deeply concerned that he’s going to break up with you. Trust your female instinct on this one. If you can feel a distance between the two of you, don’t ignore it. Understanding why this happens is truly the key to ensuring you can erase it so the relationship grows stronger and the bond between you two becomes more secure with each passing day.

If he’s emotionally distant in light of an argument you two just had, that’s likely the cause. Just as we hang onto our emotions too tightly sometimes, men do the very same thing. If you said anything hurtful during the conflict or you refused to hear his side of things, he may be pulling back because he’s harboring some resentment towards you. If this sounds like what is going on between the two of you, you’re going to have to take it upon yourself to smooth things over. This may actually mean some serious compromise on your part, but this is your relationship at stake, so it’s important to do whatever it takes. If your man sees that you want to find a peaceful resolution and you’re willing to give in a bit, he’ll feel closer to you almost instantly.

He may also be pulling away emotionally because you said or did something that hurt or upset him. Sometimes we don’t even fully realize how much impact the things we say have on our man. A woman may make a seemingly innocent comment about how much she wishes she was married to a man that isn’t even close to proposing yet. Or a woman in her desperate need to talk with the man she adores may call her guy countless times per day. In her eyes it’s terribly romantic but to him it’s more than a bit like being stalked. There are many more examples just like this but to suffice it to say, you may have done something, without even realizing, that has caused your guy to distance himself from you emotionally.

Pushing him right now, while he’s feeling emotionally vulnerable, isn’t a good idea. You have to honor what he wants and that means allowing him the opportunity to have the distance he needs. Don’t allow him to slip too far away from you though. Continue to talk with him on a regular basis and be as compassionate and understanding as you can be. If you show him the best side of you, anything negative he may have been feeling will become less pressing. Remember that absence can certainly make the heart grow fonder so a bit of distance can actually bring a failing relationship right back to life.

When a man wants space or distance it’s because he doesn’t feel as connected to you as he once did.  If you’ve done anything that has caused your man to pull back, there is a way for you to get his interest back now.

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Saying I Love You – What to Do When It Isn’t Said in Return

You did it. Maybe you meant to or perhaps you just got caught up in the moment. Regardless of what spurred it on, you’ve now told your man you love him and all you got in return was a “thank you” or a nervous smile. It’s a dreadful feeling, isn’t it? You’ve bared your heart and soul to this man and he couldn’t muster up the courage to respond in kind. Now you feel awkward whenever you see him and you wonder what he really feels for you. What’s a girl in your situation to do? As much as you want to run and bury your face in the sand, there’s a better way to deal with this. Telling a man you love him too soon isn’t the end of the world, although it certainly can feel like it is.

Embarrassment is the emotion you’re going to feel you’re drowning in if you’ve said you love him and he didn’t say the same back. It’s natural to feel that you wish you could take the words back and it’s hard not to question whether the relationship was actually as close and connected as you believed it to be. As much as you feel like second guessing what you’re feeling, don’t. Men and women actually fall in love at different paces. Even though you may be head over heels for him right now, he may still be on the edge of falling in love. That’s not to say that he won’t eventually. It’s just that his emotional maturity may not allow him to feel as much as soon as you do.

You can’t rerun the encounter and erase the words. They are out there now and you have to deal with the consequences of that. Many women in your situation are inclined to discuss what happened with the man in question. That seems reasonable and emotionally responsible, but there’s a catch. By bringing it up with him you’re opening yourself up to the possibility that he again won’t say he loves you too. Even though that may not be the motivation behind you wanting to discuss what happened, there will be an unspoken expectation that he’ll just blurt out the words and the issue will become a mute point.

A much better and emotionally safer approach for you is to pull the spotlight away from what you said and instead focus on moving the relationship forward without any expectations. That means you need to shift your state of mind a bit and stop focusing on the fact that you’re crazy about this man and he has yet to share those same feelings with you. Take the time to rebuild your blossoming connection without any talk of love or devotion. Arrange some fun outings for the two of you and discuss safe and neutral things like work or the weather.

Once you reinvent the relationship and pull the focus away from your ill timed confession of love, he’ll relax and open up more. Then, once he does share that he loves you too, you’ll know it’s coming from a pure place inside of his heart and not from feeling pressured by you.

When a woman says “I love you too soon” it can damage the relationship forever. If you’ve done anything that has caused your man to pull back, there is a way for you to get his interest back now.

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Falling in Love – Do Men Tend to Pull Back When They Are Deeply in Love?

There are so many misconceptions that women buy into when they are in relationships. We tend to take the advice of trusted friends over our own common sense. A perfect example is when you’re crazy in love with a man who suddenly pulls away. Your better judgment tells you that he’s lost interest but your best friends and family may suggest that the reason he’s creating distance is that he’s fallen deeply in love with you. It’s so much less painful to believe that , isn’t it? It’s romantic to the millionth degree to believe that your guy is so in love that he’s overwhelmed and just needs a chance to catch his breath before he explodes emotionally. Sadly, that’s the stuff that Hollywood screenplays are based on. Your reality isn’t nearly as captivating as that. If your guy is pulling back, take it for exactly what it is.

Any woman in a relationship in which her man pulled back will tell you that it had little to do with his heart being overcome with love and adoration. It had everything to do with him suddenly losing interest based on something that either she did or that happened between them. Here’s a prime example of what often occurs: you’re dating a terrific guy and you see visions of wedding dresses and children dancing in your head. You tell him as much and he smiles and nods his head up and down. After that sentimental moment, he bolts, and you don’t hear from him for days. You take his absence to mean that he’s trying to keep himself together because he wants the future you speak of so desperately. In reality, he’s thinking you’re way too pushy and he sees you as the desperate one. Your dreams of a happily-ever-after future may have just pushed your prince charming away for good.

The fact is that if a man is deeply in love with a woman he wants nothing more than to be with her as much as he possibly can. He wants to hear her voice and he longs to read an email or text message from her. He works hard to rearrange his life so she becomes his number one priority. He hates when too much time passes and he can’t see her or speak with her. That’s the true sign of a man in love.

Being realistic about what his actions really mean will give you a foot up when it comes to saving the relationship. If you continue to bury your head in the romantic sand and believe that he’s disappeared from your life for days because he can’t shoulder his deep and unending love for you, you’re mistaken. He’s pulled back because something inside of him changed. He’s lost interest or you’ve done something that has turned him off. Remember, many men are fickle in the early stages of a relationship. Pinpoint when his feelings changed and you can use that as a springboard to get things back on track so he does indeed fall hopelessly in love with you.

When a man wants space or distance it’s because he doesn’t feel as connected to you as he once did.  If you’ve done anything that has caused your man to pull back, there is a way for you to get his interest back now.

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When a Sagittarius Man Ignores You! How to Regain His Attention Now

Every woman secretly wants the same thing from her guy. She wants to feel as though she’s the center of his universe. It may be too much to ask at times, but it’s not too much to dream of being with a man who sees you as a cherished gift. That’s why it’s so disheartening when the man you love suddenly pulls away and stops paying as much attention to you. When a Sagittarius man ignores you it can leave you questioning the depth of his devotion and your future happiness with him.

Sagittarius men are a rare breed. You already know this very well since you’re involved with one. Men born under this sign are smart, adventurous and spiritual. You’ll feel grateful each time he says he adores you because you know men like this are very hard to find. That’s why you’ll feel very off center when he abruptly changes around you. If he used to call and now you wait days to hear from him, that’s definitely something you should be very concerned about. You have to do something dramatic if you want to regain his attention, but it can’t be too obvious. If he sees you panicking it can actually cause him to feel even more uncomfortable to the point that he’ll end the relationship for good.

When a Sagittarius man ignores you it’s important for you to give him the space he needs. Obviously that doesn’t mean that you should drop all contact with him forever, but it does mean that you shouldn’t be the one continually calling him if he hasn’t reached out to you. He may very well just need a bit of breathing room and if you chase after him he won’t feel he’s getting that. That’s why it’s advisable that you wait at least a few days to contact him if he is indeed ignoring you. Don’t leave message after message on his voice mail begging him to call you back. Simply wait a few days, call him once and leave one message just saying you wanted to touch base. Keep it very calm and don’t get emotional. The last thing he wants to hear is you sobbing into the receiver about how much you desperately miss him.

If he senses that you’re not panicking over his need for some space, he’ll come around quicker. It’s a great idea to get busy focusing on other areas of your life so you don’t feel the enormous void that he’s left. Spend more time with friends and work on improving who you are. You can’t let him see that the relationship is defining your happiness.

Allow a few weeks to pass and if he’s still ignoring you ask him to meet for a coffee. During that meeting explain to him that the relationship has shifted and you’re not feeling it’s heading in a good direction anymore. Give him a chance to share what he’s been feeling with you. If he chooses to tell you that nothing is wrong or he’s just very busy, leave it at that. Sagittarius men are notorious for taking the woman they love for granted until they realize she’s on the brink of leaving. If you show him that you’re okay with walking away from the relationship, he’ll suddenly change his attitude completely. The key is not to go on and on about it. Instead, let your actions speak for you.

When a woman makes a critical mistake in her relationship it can damage it forever. If you’ve done anything that has caused your man to pull back, there is a way for you to get his interest back now.

Learn how to erase just about any mistake with your man by clicking here.

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My Boyfriend is Always Busy! What This Really Means for Your Relationship

Remember when you and your boyfriend first started dating? Things were grand back then, weren’t they? He couldn’t get enough of you and you never doubted, even for a scant second, just how much he truly loved and needed you. Now, things have shifted and you’re not completely sure what it is. You do know that he doesn’t seem to spend nearly as much time with you but when you ask him about it he has so many reasonable excuses you can’t help but believe him. If your boyfriend is always busy, don’t overlook it or allow him to explain it away. His continued absence from your life has a serious hidden meaning and unless you address it, your relationship is going to unravel to the point where you two aren’t together anymore.

If your boyfriend is always busy whereas he used to have more than enough time to spend with you, it’s important for you to identify if his absence is because of something real or not. Men often resort to using the same tired excuses for why they can’t spend time with their girlfriends when they begin to lose interest. They’ll say things like they are overloaded with work, they have a friend who is going through a difficult time or they have to focus on a family member who is sick. At first glance these all seem like very reasonable explanations but if this continues for more than a couple of weeks, he’s pulling away from you and is just not ready to address it directly with you.

Many men can’t emotionally shoulder a break up. They don’t want to be the one who breaks your heart so instead they pull away until you get so tired of it that you break it off. You can typically tell if this is happening if your guy isn’t really emotionally there when he does happen to spend time with you. If he talks on his phone or is busy texting his friends when you two are together, that’s another clear sign that his interest just isn’t focused on you anymore.

Unless you want the relationship to wither and die a very slow and drawn out death you need to talk to your boyfriend about what is happening. Try your best not to accuse him of anything. Just explain that you miss hanging out with him and you’re wondering if there’s anything you could be doing to help him have more available time. If you approach the problem from a compassionate and understanding place like this he’ll feel more open to discussing what he’s feeling.

It’s important to note that pushing your boyfriend to talk about why he’s pulling away may open up a can of worms that will be emotionally devastating for you. Quite often a man will say he’s constantly busy because the woman he’s with has done something that has made him lose interest. We all make slight mistakes in our relationships and sometimes a man can absorb a small mistake as something relationship changing. Be prepared to listen to him explain his feelings with an open mind and heart.

When a woman makes a critical mistake in her relationship it can damage it forever. If you’ve done anything that has caused your man to pull back, there is a way for you to get his interest back now.

Learn how to erase just about any mistake with your man by clicking here.

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He Suddenly Lost Interest in You! Why This Happens and What to Do

If there was a way to see inside your man’s mind you’d probably be giddy, right? We all would. Men can be so incredibly challenging to understand. They do things that really make little sense to us and unfortunately they don’t offer any insight into why they do the things they do. Such is the case when a man pulls back. If you’ve been involved with a man and now he suddenly lost interest in you, you’re not the first woman this has happened to. Although you may feel like panicking uncontrollably, don’t. This situation can be handled in a way that will draw him back to you while at the same time you keep your dignity intact. Sounds like advice you need, doesn’t it?

If he suddenly lost interest in you it’s important that you try and identify what happened. Sure you could ask him but if he’s like most men, he’ll clam up and say nothing is wrong. Obviously something is very wrong if a man who couldn’t get enough of you stops calling altogether. The main reason why men lose interest in a woman overnight is because she’s done something that is unappealing. It’s hard to absorb that but it’s the unfortunate harsh reality of the dating world. Unless a man is deeply emotionally invested in a relationship, one wrong move on the part of the woman he’s seeing and he’ll disappear into the wind.

Identifying what you did wrong can be tricky. Men respond to some things much differently than we do. For instance, if you’ve been calling him repeatedly each day just because you’re so crazy about him, he may view that as stalker behavior, not the actions of a woman who is falling in love. The same is true if you’ve taken to talking about how wonderful your future will be with him. If he’s still seeing you just as his girlfriend, he’ll be spooked if you start talking about becoming his wife and settling down for life.

You may feel that the best approach for you to take once you have identified the problem is to apologize for it. Don’t be tempted into doing that. He’ll probably become more uncomfortable if you bring up the issue. It’s much better for you to try and change the dynamic of the relationship on your own. It’s very simple to do this. All that is required is for you to contact him again from a place of friendship. Call him up and ask if he wants to meet for a coffee. If he’s hesitant, drop it for now and work to establish a text message or email connection with him. Keep the conversations light and general and show that there’s much more to you than the one thing he found distasteful. Over time he’ll start to feel connected to you again and you’ll get the second chance to make him adore you that you’ve wanted.

When a woman makes a critical mistake in her relationship it can damage it forever. If you’ve done anything that has caused your man to pull back, there is a way for you to get his interest back now.

Learn how to erase just about any mistake with your man by clicking here.

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My Boyfriend Says I’m Annoying! How to Change His Attitude About You

It’s natural that you’d want your boyfriend to love everything about you. It’s what we all dream of. We all want a man who sees us as the ideal mate and perfect partner. If your boyfriend suddenly starts to make comments that aren’t flattering it stings. If you’re a woman who has been saying, “my boyfriend says I’m annoying,” you’re in a difficult position. His critical words are bound to hurt you more than anyone else’s and unless you handle this the right way you can actually push him away. You need to learn how to take his opinion and use it to not only improve who you are but to make the relationship stronger than it’s ever been before.

If you’ve been saying, “my boyfriend says I’m annoying,” it’s probably been virtually impossible to move past the pain those words have caused you. Criticism is difficult for most of us to accept and it’s even harder if the person sharing the negative words is the man we adore most in the world. You must, however, take a step back and look at your relationship as a whole. If you two get along otherwise and you haven’t heard him share any other derogatory thoughts about you, it’s important that you see his words for what they are. He may have told you that you’re annoying because there are things that you’ve been doing that bother him. None of us is perfect and it’s crucial that you recognize that before you blow the situation out of proportion.

Think calmly and honestly about what you may be doing that is being absorbed as annoying behavior on his part. Some men find it brutally annoying when their girlfriend calls them repeatedly throughout the day. Although it’s lovely to stay in touch with one another, it can become too much if he’s busy with work or other things and his cell phone keeps ringing indicating you’re calling. Another reason some men become find their girlfriend’s behavior irritating is focused on commitment. If you’re continually pushing him to make a commitment to you and he’s not ready to do that, he’ll soon grow tired of your subtle and not-so-subtle hints at marriage.

Solving this issue isn’t complicated at all. You must first identify what you are doing that he’s finding annoying. If you’ve given it some thought and still have no idea, ask him. It may feel like you’re opening a can of worms by doing so, but it’s actually a very healthy and positive step for your relationship. By allowing your man the chance to express what he feels in relation to you, you’re encouraging him to continue doing that in the future.

Once you know what you’ve been doing that is irritating him, it’s as simple as changing. Work hand on eliminating the behavior patterns that are contributing to his feeling that you’re annoying. That’s not to say that you need to alter the woman you are to please a man but if there are specific things you are saying or doing that he finds unappealing, it’s certainly helpful to change those before he decides that he isn’t willing to overlook them anymore.

When a woman makes a critical mistake in her relationship it can damage it forever. If you’ve done anything that has caused your man to pull back, there is a way for you to get his interest back now.

Learn how to erase just about any mistake with your man by clicking here.

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Why Do Men Pull Away After Intimacy? Insight into Why Your Man Does This

Relationships can be funny things. They can also be enriching and wonderful things but there are times when your guy may do things that just don’t make much sense to you. Don’t worry, you’re not alone in feeling that way. We all experience that from time-to-time and almost always we seek out advice from our well meaning friends. The problem with that is most of our friends are having the same relationship problems we are so they don’t really have much educated insight to offer. Such is the case when it comes to the question of why do men pull away after intimacy. It’s a situation many women have to face yet most don’t know why it happens or how to effectively deal with it.

The simple answer to the question of why do men pull away after intimacy is they need some space. That sounds almost too expected, doesn’t it? Men and women often view intimacy in very different ways. For women it can be a time to cement the emotional bond they’ve already begun to feel for their man. For him it’s just another way to express his desire for her. After intimacy a woman isn’t really thinking all that level headed. She’s lost in her growing adoration for her man. For a man it’s very different. He’s thinking much more clearly after he’s been intimate with a woman. All the physical desire he’s felt for her is quieted and he can then focus on his feelings.

Men aren’t always that skilled at balancing what they feel. It’s crucial for some men to take a step back when things feel they are getting too close or heated within the relationship. This sometimes happens after intimacy and if the woman in question wants the relationship to continue to grow it’s important for her to allow him the space he needs without pressuring him.

Many men actually struggle with a moral dilemma after intimacy and most women are shocked to learn of this. Depending on the timing of your intimate encounter, your man may feel it was too soon. That’s probably almost laughable given the fact that he was the one who initiated it, but it’s sadly the case. If he feels that you two were intimate too soon it may actually have turned him off the idea of having a relationship with you. He may jump to the unflattering conclusion that if you’re getting physical with him so quickly it’s probably something you do with every man you become involved with.

If your guy is one of the men who does pull away after intimacy, take a step back yourself and relax. If you come on too strong by calling him repeatedly or sending him text message after text message asking what’s wrong, he’ll pull back even more. He needs some time to himself and some room to contemplate how he feels. If you can give him space to do that, you’ll notice he’ll be chasing after you again in no time.

Men are most attracted to women who are self confident and not afraid of being alone. Never allow him to see that the relationship defines you or that you need him to survive. If you stay quiet after intimacy too and jump right back into your life you’ll be showing him that you’re just as happy on your own. That’s typically enough to recapture his interest because the silent threat of losing you will certainly jolt him back into realizing what’s really important.

When a woman sleeps with a man too soon it can damage the relationship forever. If you’ve done anything that has caused your man to pull back, there is a way for you to get his interest back now.

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Why Hasn’t He Called After Our Date? Understand What He’s Thinking

Men can be incredibly confusing, can’t they? Dating is more challenging than it’s ever been before. There are so many rules we’re supposed to remember when it comes to catching and keeping a man’s heart. For instance, we all now know that being independent and having your own opinion is actually a good thing in the eyes of most single men. Still, we suffer through bouts of not knowing what’s going on in our own relationship. Such is the case when a guy you thought was really interested suddenly drops out of sight. If you’re asking the question, “why hasn’t he called after our date,” the answer may not be what you’d expect.

Typically if a woman asks her single friends the question, “why hasn’t he called after our date,” they’ll say it’s because he’s so smitten that he can’t think straight. It’s an explanation we tend to believe for the simple reason that we don’t want to face the alternative. A man who is deeply interested in you isn’t going to run the other direction without a word. He’s actually not calling because something changed for him between the time you two met for the date and right now. Suffice it to say that during the date something turned your guy off and now he’s not sure he’s willing to overlook it to continue to pursue a relationship with you.

During the dating stage of any relationship neither person is typically all that emotionally invested in the other. There’s an obvious point where that does change and in most relationships it’s actually the woman who first starts to fall deeper. For the man he’s still back in the “like” phase and is still trying to determine if you’re a good fit for him or not. If you do anything, even something seemingly meaningless, that rubs him the wrong way, the relationship will be over.

Some men just don’t have the courage to come to you and say that they’ve lost interest. Those men would much rather wander off into the sunset with the hope that you’ll soon forget about them. Obviously that’s incredibly unfair to you and it’s up to you whether or not you’re willing to accept that type of behavior. A good piece of advice to follow is to give it some time so you can sort through what you’re feeling as well. Take a couple of weeks to really consider whether you believe he was as perfect of a match as you thought he was. If he was you can then start on the path towards regaining his interest by showing him that one action or some random words you may have spoken during the date don’t define who you are as a woman or as a partner.

When a woman makes a critical mistake in her relationship it can damage it forever. If you’ve done anything that has caused your man to pull back, there is a way for you to get his interest back now.

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How to Get a Capricorn Man to Forgive You? Ways to Regain His Love Again

When our relationship isn’t exactly the way we want it to be nothing in our lives seems right. That’s the case when you’ve done something that has upset or hurt your love. In the case of a Capricorn man a woman is facing an even more complicated challenge. These men are incredibly sensitive and when stung it can turn them off a woman forever. Understanding how to get a Capricorn man to forgive you is essential if you want to pick up the pieces of your fractured relationship and built it back into the strong and promising union that it once was.

Learning how to get a Capricorn man to forgive you begins with recognizing the power of a genuine apology. Men born under this star sign are very traditional and approach relationships in a very old-fashioned way. They tend to believe in the common courtesies of life including good manners and thoughtfulness. Saying you are sorry for what you did is essential to setting the wheels in motion towards getting him back. Be direct and to the point when you apologize to him for whatever you did to upset him. Don’t try and explain away your actions. Just taking responsibility in a mature way is enough to impact him and make him see that you have genuine regret.

Playing games isn’t helpful when you’re trying to rebuild a broken bond with a Capricorn man. He’ll be able to see right through your misguided intentions almost immediately and it will certainly cause him to pull back even farther from you. Pretending to be interested in another man or acting disinterested are both ploys that simply won’t work with a man like this. Leave the game playing out of the equation if you hope to win his heart again.

Changing your behavior is obviously an important way to get him to forgive you. If your actions are what caused the issue in the first place, you need to change what you’re doing now. It’s one thing to tell a man that you won’t do something again because it hurt him, but it’s quite another to show him that you mean what you say. By changing your behavior you are sending a very loud and clear message that you’ve learned from your mistakes and are mature enough to make positive improvements in the woman you are. This is certain to regain his respect and attention. Your Capricorn man definitely doesn’t want to feel that his pain has been in vain. Show him that’s not the case by becoming a better person and partner.

When a woman makes a critical mistake in her relationship it can damage it forever. If you’ve done anything that has caused your Capricorn man to pull back, there is a way for you to get his interest back now.

Learn how to erase just about any mistake with your man by clicking here.

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