We all know the importance of a good first impression. The way you initially present yourself to someone new is crucially important whether it’s a job interview that you’re attending or you’re on a first date. In the case of the latter you want to actually be the type of woman who sweeps the man off his feet if he’s someone you can see yourself building a future with. You don’t want to mess up but the problem with that is most of us have no idea what turns men off. We may think we do, but there’s so much conflicting advice being thrown at us that we’re fortunate if we can find some gems in the bunch. You really do need to be aware of what to avoid if you want to get a man interested in you enough to want to see you again and again.
There are 3 major things that men dislike in women:
A lack of independence. How many times have you read in a “woman’s” magazine that you need to act like a damsel in distress to get your personal prince charming to come running to be with you? The correct answer is “too many times.” Men don’t want to feel as though they’re responsible for you. It does nothing for them in the desire department. If you act like you can’t handle your own life, he’s going to exit himself from it forever. He doesn’t want you if you aren’t mature, stable or balanced enough to handle the little stresses that life throws at you. Here’s a secret ladies: the more capable, determined and self sufficient you are, the better. He’ll want you more if you show him that you don’t really need him.
An obvious jealous streak. Isn’t it romantic to imagine the man you love getting all angry and upset because another man looked at you? It’s the stuff many women dream of. They equate jealousy with love. Sadly, that’s a terribly unbalanced equation. Men don’t view jealousy the way we do. They see it as completely and totally negative. If you get quiet or sad over the fact that he looked at another pretty woman, he’ll think you’re lacking self esteem. He’ll immediately jump to the conclusion that you feel inferior to her and if you do, he’ll start to believe he should too. Never let another woman make you feel that way. If he chooses to look at other women, or flirt with other women or become involved with other women, let your dignity guide you to the door that leads to someone better. Never let jealousy get a grip on you, it could cost you an amazing and fulfilling relationship.
A desire for too much commitment too soon. Women have insight when it comes to finding the man we are destined to love. Most of us believe we can spot him a mile away so when we finally do get to date him or become involved with him, we want to seal the deal as soon as possible. Sounds familiar, no? Most of us have made this crucial mistake with a man we loved. Instead of enjoying the relationship for what it was, we bolted towards commitment at warp speed. Telling him that you can picture yourself as his wife is never acceptable unless he’s already mentioned the word “husband” when referring to himself. Let the relationship progress at the speed it’s destined to and just relax and enjoy getting to know him.
All men are different and obviously each is going to have their own ideas about what is unappealing in a woman. Instead of worrying too much about doing something wrong, just focus on being yourself. That’s always the best advice. If you’re too preoccupied with trying to be perfect you’re not going to enjoy the relationship the way you should be.
Every woman has the power to make her man fall in love with her. You can have a deep, undying emotional connection with him.
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