Reading a man’s mind is an impossible task for the majority of women. It’s so hard to know exactly what your guy is thinking or feeling. Obviously you can ask him but we all know that most men just aren’t that willing to share every emotion they’re experiencing. Instead, they hold things close and sometimes that may result in a dramatic change to the relationship that seems to come out of left field. If you’re becoming increasingly concerned that your man is on the brink of calling things off, you need to gain more insight into what signals suggest that. Understanding the signs a man is going to leave you will ensure you are emotionally prepared for what’s about to come next.
The signs a man is going to leave you include:
He spends less and less time with you. If your boyfriend suddenly has become overloaded at work or he has a sick friend or family member that requires all of his attention, that isn’t promising for you. Many men just can’t face the idea of a confrontation about where the relationship is headed so they instead allow it to die a very slow and painful death. If he’s retreating and has too many excuses for why he can’t spend time with you, you need to accept that he feels distant.
He’s become more critical of you. Ask a man who is deeply in love what he’d change about his partner and he’d struggle to come up with anything. Once a man starts to disengage from his partner emotionally he’ll become more critical and insult her repeatedly. His insults may come across as suggestions but if he’s never been negative in the past don’t overlook it now. He’s doing that to make himself feel better about the eventual break up. After all, if he finds fault with you that will help him feel justified in not being with you anymore.
He has a new female friend he talks about endlessly. Men aren’t always that clever when it comes to hiding what they feel. If your boyfriend has met someone new at work and he’s interested in her, he may talk about her right to you. He may not even realize he’s doing this but you should take careful note of it. If he mentions things about her he likes, he may be subconsciously doing that because you don’t have those small qualities. If he wasn’t interested in her, she wouldn’t be on his mind as much. You don’t hear him going on and on about his male friends, do you?
His future plans don’t include you anymore. If you and your boyfriend had been making plans for the future and suddenly his have changed dramatically, that’s because he envisions a future without you. You can tell if this is the case if you notice him talking more about what his own plans are and there’s no mention of you at all.
It’s hurtful to come to the realization that your man may be close to leaving you. By understanding the signs you need to look for, you can take the steps needed to either be prepared for the moment when he ends the relationship or work hard now to save it.
Saying or doing the wrong thing can impact your future with the man you love.
If you still need and want him don’t leave your future with him to chance, there are ways to win him back.