In life sometimes second chances are hard to find. This is particularly true in the area of relationships. Once a couple goes through a difficult break up it can seem almost impossible for them to find their way back together again. Unfortunately for many women in this exact position they can’t let go. They realize just how much they truly love their ex and they can’t even imagine another man taking his place in their heart or life. If you want to learn how to start dating your ex boyfriend again you have to be clear on the importance of controlled emotions and actions. Just following your heart and letting him see how much you need him may seem like the romantic and sure way to go, but it’s not.
In order to start dating your ex boyfriend again you have to put the past to rest. You can’t expect to move forward if there is negativity between you. One of you needs to be the first to apologize for what brought you two to the decision to break up. It’s important that you be that person. Your apology shouldn’t be over the top though. It needs to be concise and direct and delivered with as little emotion as possible. Call your ex boyfriend up and tell him that you’re sorry. That’s about as simple as you need to be.
Forging ahead with a new friendship with your ex may seem like a huge step in the wrong direction, but don’t discount it just yet. Attempting to get him to jump back into being your ex boyfriend right away may prove extremely challenging. You’ll fare much better if you start out being friends. Invite him out with groups of mutual friends or meet him for lunch. Don’t talk about the failed relationship or how you wish you could start dating him again. Just focus on being friends for now and let nature take its course.
Obviously, if you don’t make any changes in the woman you are, you can’t really expect the relationship to flourish the second time around. While you are busy building a new friendship with your ex boyfriend, focus some time and energy on yourself. Improve the things about yourself that you haven’t been completely proud of. Maybe you have a quick temper or you have a jealous streak that sometimes gets out of control. Work on those things so that when your friendship begins its inevitable shift into something romantic again, your boyfriend will see a better, stronger and more positive version of the woman he first fell in love with.
Saying or doing the wrong thing can impact your future with the man you love.
If you still need and want him don’t leave your future with him to chance, there are ways to win him back.