Since you and your boyfriend went through your break up you’ve had one clear focus, haven’t you? Most women in your position are exactly the same way. You know logically that since the relationship ended you two should probably just go your separate ways and carve out new lives that don’t intersect. Your heart isn’t on board with that idea. It’s no surprise given the fact that you’re completely in love with the man still. You want a future with him and you’re determined to make that happen. The problem is that you have no idea what to do to keep from losing him for good. That’s understandable considering you’ve probably never gone through something this emotional before and you have no guidance regarding what does and doesn’t work in terms of rekindling a lost love.
One of the ways to keep from losing him for good is to accept that the break up is a reality. It sounds like something you should have already done but it can be a hard step for many women in the wake of their relationship ending. The man you love isn’t your boyfriend at the moment and the sooner you accept that, the sooner you can change it. By truly accepting it you’ll help your mind shift to a place that is much less emotionally charged. You’ll be more reasonable when dealing with him and you won’t allow yourself to wear your heart on your sleeve. That’s crucial.
Detaching your life from his will prove very beneficial when you want to get him back. Your inner voice right now is telling you to hold onto him as tight as you possibly can. That’s the driving force behind all those phone calls you make to him and the emails and text messages you send. You need to stop pushing yourself on the man. If you take a strong and determined step back from the relationship that will spark his interest much more than if you continue to throw yourself helplessly at his feet. Your man doesn’t want someone who is that desperate and pathetic. He wants a strong, self assured and very confident woman who can make it on her own. Show him that you can.
A solid friendship can be the bridge towards the renewal of a broken relationship. Once you’ve taken some time away from your ex approach him again as a platonic friend. He’ll already be silently questioning what you’ve been feeling because of your absence. That’s why it’s so effective if you suddenly pop back into the picture just seeking friendship. Make it clear, at this point, that you’re not interested in more. That one statement, and your behavior that accompanies it, will make your ex boyfriend desperately want you back. He’ll feel you’re just out of reach and that’s a great motivating factor for winning a man back.
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