There’s little in life that’s more embarrassing or humbling than being dumped. It’s especially difficult if the man who dumped you is the man you absolutely adore. As much as he may feel it’s best for you two to be apart, that doesn’t necessarily reflect what you feel at all. Not only do you have to face the emotional turmoil that comes with this level of rejection but you also must try and come to terms with the confusion that invades your every thought. Understanding the reasons he broke up with you will help you not only come to terms with what is happening right now it will help you lay the groundwork to get him back if you still love him.
One of the reasons he broke up with you may have been a difference in opinion about the future of your relationship. Men and women tend to fall in love at different paces. He may have felt very close to you but has yet to feel the yearnings that would make him devote his future to you entirely. If you were pressuring him into a more serious commitment than he was willing to make, that can certainly result in him pulling back to the point of ending the relationship altogether.
Another common reason why men dump women is they can’t handle their ever changing moods. Often times when we fall in love with a man we just let ourselves get too comfortable in an emotional sense. We let him see all the good and bad moods we experience. Naturally it’s important to be yourself when you’re with a man but it’s also advantageous to be mindful of how much of your negativity you are actually sharing with him. Your boyfriend may have just become tired of hearing and seeing you complain endlessly about things.
Sadly, some men dump the women they are with because they find the relationship to be just too mundane or boring. It’s very easy to fall into a pattern with your boyfriend. You two may have stopped going out as often and your life together became too predictable for him. Once this happens, if the man doesn’t express it to his partner, nothing will change and eventually his interest will slowly fade away for good.
Obviously his interest in someone new may have been the reason he broke up with you but it’s important not to jump to that conclusion too quickly. It’s actually rare for a man to dump one woman and jump directly into a relationship with another. Chances are very good that there’s no one new on his dating horizon just yet.
Saying or doing the wrong thing can impact your future with the man you love.
If you still need and want him don’t leave your future with him to chance, there are ways to win him back.