You’ve been dumped! It’s painful, isn’t it? Nothing quite compares to the feeling and you can’t really understand it fully until it’s happened to you. When the man you adore tells you that he’s not in love with you anymore or he needs a break it almost feels as though your world comes crashing down around you. It’s really hard to think straight and thinking about a future without him just feels impossible and bleak. You’ll likely allow yourself to mourn the loss by shutting yourself off from everything. Most of us hide out at home as we nurse our broken heart. But why go that route if you’re sure he’s the guy for you? Is he not worth fighting for? There are ways to get him back after he dumped you and if you’re determined and driven you can make it happen.
One of the ways to get him back after he dumped you is to dump him too. Sounds a bit childish, doesn’t it? And it likely also seems like it wouldn’t work given the fact that he’s already ended things with you. The feeling of rejection is much more powerful than most of us first realize. If you step back from your emotions for a moment you’ll realize that a good deal of the drive to get your guy back is fuelled by the rejection you currently feel. He didn’t want you so you’re going to prove to him that you are indeed the right woman for him. That’s the same feeling that you need to now make him feel and the easiest and most effective way to do that is to dump him.
All this should consist of is you agreeing to the break up in principle. On a day when you’re feeling particularly strong and in control of your emotions, talk to him. Tell him that you’ve come to realize that the break up was the best thing for you both. Don’t be weeping when you do this and don’t sound insincere. Just make certain he understands that you’re okay with not being with him anymore. Suddenly he’ll be the rejected one and that won’t sit well with him.
You should also move forward with your life. This is one of the best ways to get him back after he dumped you. Don’t start dating again but do get out and have fun. If you sit at home wishing that things were different and mourning the loss of what isn’t anymore, he’s going to see that as pathetic and sad. In no way would that make you appealing to him. You have to show him that life goes on without him. A perfect approach is to hang out at places where you have both female and male friends in attendance. If he hears through the mutual friend grapevine that you’re out having fun with other men, it’s going to impact him. In that instant he’ll suddenly come to the realization that you may just be moving on from him and if he still has even the slightest bit of lingering feelings for you, he’ll want you back.
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