You want to pull your ex boyfriend back into your life, yes? I’m guessing a lot of your friends are telling you that it’s the worst thing for you to do at this point. They probably believe that since the two of you broke up that you should take that as a warning sign that the relationship isn’t meant to be. Obviously, they care for you so they want you to be happy and in a relationship that fulfills you. The problem is that they can’t possibly understand what it was like to be in love with him. You miss him terribly and there isn’t a minute that passes by that you don’t think about what you’ve lost. Moving on sounds easy enough but in reality you’re finding it virtually impossible. You shouldn’t continue to try and live without the man you love. Now is the perfect time to get him back and there’s an ideal approach that you need to be taking.
The best way to pull your ex boyfriend back into your life again is to ignore him. Yes, that’s right. Instead of chasing after him endlessly with your emotions on your sleeve you need to shut the man out of your life. At this moment you’re looking at your break up through the eyes of a jilted woman. That’s because that’s exactly who you are. Your heart has been crushed, your ego deflated and you are finding the burden of rejection to be a heavy one for you to carry. You need to change your attitude immediately. Presently, your boyfriend is seeing you as a pathetic and desperate mess. Each time he hears you cry on the phone or he sees you break down in person he feels uncomfortable and he also feels justified in his decision to end the relationship. There isn’t a man alive who wants to be with a woman who allows her emotions to completely rule her life.
You’re strong inside, right? You know that you are and you are going to show that to your ex boyfriend starting this minute. Begin by taking the drastic step of deleting his number from your cell phone. Granted you probably have it memorized but removing it from your address book is a symbolic gesture. It will also help you to focus less on him. You can take the same step regarding any images of him you may have saved on your phone or laptop. Remove them or place them in a folder you aren’t going to continually peek at.
Once you’ve removed any sign of him from your environment, it’s time to start really ignoring him. This doesn’t need to be as challenging as it sounds. All you have to do is keep yourself busy enough today that you don’t talk with him. Do the same thing tomorrow. By cutting off all contact with him you are essentially showing him that you don’t need him. Men hate feeling as though they aren’t desired and it’s that rejection that fuels them to want something they can’t have. If you can find your inner strength and you’re determined to get him back, ignore him beginning right now. His curiosity and ego will push him right back into your arms again which is exactly where he belongs.
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