You want to make your ex boyfriend wish he had you back. It’s understandable given what’s happened between the two of you. You probably never imagined that you two would ever break up, did you? The day it happened was by far the worst day of your life. You want to erase it from your memory and just be back with him and secure in your love for each other. It’s a lovely sentiment but unfortunately it’s not that simple to make it happen. If you want the man back in your life you have to take certain steps to improve the chances of that happening. Simply waiting around to see if he’ll eventually want you back is not the best approach to take.
In order to make your ex boyfriend wish he had you back you must appeal to his ego. That sounds ridiculous, doesn’t it? You’d think that the best approach to be taking would be to win over his heart again by saying sweet nothings to him or sending him love notes or gifts. A man’s ego is often the key to his heart for a very good reason. If a man feels slighted by a woman or he feels she just doesn’t want him, he’ll want her more. It’s basic male psychology at work. In other words, if you reject him, the man will be racing after you to try and win you back.
It doesn’t matter whether you were the one who dumped him initially or if he took on that role. The fact that you’ve been essentially begging him to come back to you hasn’t been helping you at all. It’s actually been playing right into his ego. He feels empowered by the knowledge that you’d do just about anything to get him to want you again. For that very reason, he doesn’t want you. Men want a challenge so they’ll push aside the woman who chases after them in favor of someone playing hard to get. Become the master of that game and you can’t help but win.
So what exactly are the steps you need to take? In basic terms if you want to make your ex boyfriend wish he had you back stop talking to him. Then ignore him for a few weeks. In the meantime, start going out more and having some fun. I wouldn’t suggest dating anyone else but I would suggest spending some time in places where men tend to gather. A suggestion for that is to grab a bunch of girlfriends and go down to a local club. You want to give your ex boyfriend the idea that you may just be looking for someone new. Once he believes he’s about to be permanently replaced, he’ll chase after you more than he ever has before.
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