A few months ago could you ever have imagined that you’d be in the position you are now? Did you consider, for a moment that your boyfriend and you wouldn’t be together anymore? Rarely, do we see a break up coming and typically we’re never really prepared for it. It’s often so shocking that it feels like the world has turned upside down. Being a woman in this position is incredibly challenging. Not only do you have to try and move forward without the man you love but you also must consider what you want for your future. Although he may have told you that he’s not interested in anything more with you, you may feel differently. Getting back an ex boyfriend is almost always possible. It’s all about creating an attraction so strong that he finds you completely irresistible. If you find yourself thinking “I want my ex boyfriend back,” this is your chance to make it happen.
Wanting your ex boyfriend back and making it happen are obviously two very different things. If you approach the journey of getting him back from a place of sheer desperation, you’re going to fail miserably. Unfortunately, this is typically what most women do. They see the distance that is now between them and their boyfriend as a negative thing. They want to remedy it immediately and in an effort to do so they throw all caution to the wind. These are typically the women who send long love letters, purchase expensive gifts for their ex or even camp outside his apartment in an effort to get him to fall back in love. Anything like this is a bad idea. He’ll see you as a pathetic mess and he’ll want nothing to do with you in the future.
Strength and compassion are two qualities that never go out of style. If you can muster up all the inner strength you have, you’ll stand a much better chance of getting your ex boyfriend to want you again. A woman who presents herself as strong and in control is sending a silent message that she can live without any man. She’s suggesting, by her actions, that she’s self sufficient and not reliant on anyone else for her own happiness. Men love this. Your ex boyfriend will be impressed by it and by you.
Not continually blaming him for your broken heart is essential if you hope to rebuild a connection with the man. You must accept the fact that the relationship just didn’t work. Although he may have been the one to break up with you, pointing that out won’t make him interested again. Accept that you weren’t what he wanted at the time. If you can do that, you’ll be able to let go of him a bit and that distance will help you to see things more clearly. It will also help by allowing him the chance to see that you’re not going to chase after him anymore to try and get him back.
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