“I still love my boyfriend who dumped me.” It’s not easy saying that is it? The feeling of rejection after being dumped is unlike anything else. You feel worthless, confused and just not sure of anything anymore. If the man you loved more than anything doesn’t find you desirable anymore, who would? If you’re like most women struggling with this, you question what went wrong and what you could have done differently to keep the relationship together. Regardless of all the pain the break up has caused you, you may be wishing for another chance with your ex. It’s natural to feel that if you still love him. It’s also possible to make it happen if you’re determined, strong and focused.
Loving someone who dumped you can be very hard. Part of you feels anger and resentment over the fact that they made the conscious decision to end your relationship while the other part of you feels just so lost in love. In order to effectively get your ex back you have to get over the fact that he chose to not be with you. It’s not always easy to do that but if you think about the fact that at the moment of the break up he may just have felt disconnected from you that will help. Relationships have an ebb and flow to them and they are constantly fluid and changing. Perhaps during a low point your boyfriend just felt it wasn’t worth the effort anymore. That certainly doesn’t mean that he can’t love you again, even more than before.
Once you have let go of any negative feelings you are experiencing in relation to your boyfriend dumping you, it’s time to get him back. You’re not going to make that happen by telling him that you’re still crazy for him and that he’d be crazy not to give you a second chance. Reasoning with a man who has dumped you isn’t the route to take.
Men chase after the women that excite them. You know exactly what gets your ex boyfriend all hot and bothered. You know just how to dress to excite him and what to say to make his heart melt. That’s why you’ll spend a bit of time working on gathering up your self confidence so you can knock him off his feet. Plan an outfit that accentuates all your most desirable parts, apply your makeup just the way he likes and then run into him at his favorite coffee shop or restaurant. You’ll wow him and in that instant, you’ll peak his interest again.
Be polite when you do talk and don’t bring up what’s happened in the past. Have a smile on your face and tell him that you’d love to stop and chat but you’re just on your way somewhere. Seeing you in that instant and realizing what he lost will be enough to make him think about you again. It’s a perfect and empowering way to reignite his interest all over again.
There are other crucial steps that every woman needs to take if she wants to get her ex boyfriend back. Doing the wrong thing can mean the end of the relationship forever. Find out what you should and shouldn’t be doing from this Helpful Site!
Don’t give up on him if you believe he’s the man you are meant to be with. There are specific methods you can use that will make you irresistible to him again.