Your boyfriend wants to leave you. You can’t figure out how this happened. In your mind your relationship was going along great. You saw him as your personal prince charming and you had even started imagining what it would be like to be with him forever. Then he goes and drops the bombshell that he’s done and he’s ready to walk out the door and out of your life for good. You’re devastated so you launch yourself into panic mode and you start doing anything and everything you can think of to save the relationship. Does that sound like a perfect description of your life at the moment? If it does, you need to understand what you should be doing in this situation to get your boyfriend to change his mind so he wants nothing more than to be with you again.
If your boyfriend wants to leave you one very effective approach to take is to use a little reverse psychology on him. This can be scary given the fact that you’re so crazy about him and the last thing you want to do is to push him farther away, but it’s something you should be seriously considering. It’s rare to find a human being who does well with rejection. We all despise the feeling of being rejected by someone we care deeply for. We don’t want to think about the fact that they no longer want us. You’ve been consumed with those thoughts since you discovered your boyfriend wants to end the relationship. That’s been your driving force behind your desire to keep him. You feel rejected and it feels horrible.
So why don’t you turn the tables and make him feel as though you’re fine with him leaving you? Throwing a little rejection his way can completely change the dynamic of your relationship at the moment. Instead of crying and begging the man to stay with you, tell him that you understand that things aren’t working and you’ve been considering a break up too. He won’t anticipate hearing that from you and it will sting. He’ll feel unwanted and when a man feels that, his ego takes over and his attitude dramatically changes. He’d much rather have you telling him that you can’t live without him than hearing you say you’re okay with the break up and want your freedom too.
Pushing a man in this way can make him instantly want to rectify the problems in the relationship. After all, the idea of you being single again and free to pursue other men may be too much for him to bear. If your guy still cares for you, this approach can work amazingly well when he’s on the brink of leaving you.
Saying or doing the wrong thing can impact your future with the man you love.
If you still need and want him don’t leave your future with him to chance, there are ways to win him back now.