Should I call him again? That’s one of the most common dating questions women ask. We tend to ask it after the guy we’re seeing seems to drop off the face of the earth. In your mind you two probably had a fabulous time the last time you saw each other but since then, you haven’t heard from him and he hasn’t been around. You’re unsure of where you stand so you’ve been doing the natural thing and that’s calling him repeatedly hoping he’ll pick up and give you an explanation for his rude behavior. You’re approaching the situation in the wrong way though. You shouldn’t ever call a man back if he’s intentionally avoiding you.
The reason you shouldn’t call him again is actually very simple. Each time you set out to track him down you’re demonstrating to him just how pathetic and desperate you are. That’s exactly how he views you whenever the phone rings and he sees that it’s you. If you’re the type to call over and over again throughout the day you’ll actually end up alienating the man even further. He’ll feel justified in not calling you because he’ll start to think of you as his own personal dating stalker. If you don’t want to wear that label stop calling him right now.
If a man hasn’t returned your first call, stop calling. Don’t think for a moment that his voicemail wasn’t working or don’t imagine that something horrific has happened to him. The chances of that happening are really slim. What is likely going on is that he’s avoiding you. Maybe he’s testing you to see how desperate you are or perhaps he’s just taking a step back to regain his bearings. Either way, if you hunt him down like a woman who is crazed, he’ll never ever return that call.
Even though it may seem like a horrible idea the thing you need to be doing is to stop calling him this instant. If a man is intentionally avoiding you, you shouldn’t be putting another ounce of effort into the relationship. If he doesn’t respect you enough to return your call, don’t contact him again. It’s important to note that many men don’t call because they are anxious to see how wound up you’ll become and how many times you’ll call. If you stop contacting your man, don’t be surprised if he’s the one calling you repeatedly after a day or so. Once you stop chasing him, he may just start chasing you again. Remember the golden rule of dating which is allow a man to be the hunter and he’ll come right to you.
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