“My boyfriend is angry with me and I don’t know what to do,” said the woman afraid that a break up was in her very near future. When the man you love gets upset with you nothing in your world feels right anymore. You feel uneasy and you’re in a constant state of concern. You wonder if he’ll ever get over what he’s feeling right now or if the issue that caused this rift will haunt you forever. You are the only one who can fix this situation and time is of the essence. Unless you do something drastic quickly his anger can fester to the point where he’ll never forgive you and he’ll walk away from you and from the relationship.
Be honest with yourself about why your boyfriend is angry with you. This is not the time to wallow away in self pity because he’s pulled back and is upset with you. You have to think about what happened between the two of you and what you did that caused him to become so temperamental with you. Perhaps you said something in your rage that was unflattering and hurt his feelings. Maybe you were dishonest with him or you did something that you knew would be difficult for him to accept and now he’s found out. Regardless of what it is you have to acknowledge it and accept that you made a mistake that has caused this situation to happen.
Apologizing is the obvious thing to do but it does have to be offered in a very specific way. It must come from a place of genuine remorse. If you’re just going to tell him you’re sorry for the sake of getting him to forgive you, don’t do it. He needs to know and feel that you sincerely regret what you did. The only way you can present an apology like this is if you do feel badly for what happened. Once you reach that point, call him up and offer him your regrets. It’s a good idea to not go into long winded details about how you’ll change and be a better person, that’s something you’re going to be showing him.
You need to be completely understanding as you work to rebuild your bond with your boyfriend. Once you’ve made your apology, don’t focus on what you did wrong. Just tell him that you’re available to talk about it if he chooses. Don’t push the issue or ask him if he’s forgiven you yet.
Use each day to show your boyfriend that you’ve changed. If you caused the fight that resulted in him being angry with you, work on calming yourself so there aren’t any fights in your future. If a mistake you made began the conflict, show him that you will never make that mistake again. Although it can take some time for a person to offer their forgiveness, don’t give up. If you love him it’s worth all this effort to pull him close to you again.
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