Your boyfriend says he loves you but he’s not in love. Not exactly the words you were hoping to hear from the man you adore, right? It’s truly unfortunate that he feels that way but ignoring it isn’t going to change it. What he’s essentially telling you is that he cares for you but he’s not feeling that driving passion that was once there. So how did it change and is there any way to transform the relationship now? There is. You can rekindle the love he once felt for you and you can make him want you even more than he ever has before.
What does it mean when your boyfriend says he loves you but he’s not in love? It means that somewhere along the way his feelings shifted from a place of romance to a place of friendship. It may have been caused by boredom or perhaps it’s born from a lack of intimacy, but something definitely challenged his feelings for you. It may be easy to determine what that was if you remember a moment when he started treating you differently. Or perhaps it’s not that definable and you feel that things changed slowly over the course of a few weeks or months. Regardless, you need to now get him to see you through the eyes of a lover and not a friend.
Just because he’s told you that he loves you but he’s not in love does not mean that the relationship is on the brink of falling apart. He likely was just sharing his feelings with you with the hope that you could offer some guidance and direction. You’re going to do one better and you’re going to pull him back to you and make him fall for you again the way he did when you two first met.
Begin that by making yourself as desirable as you possibly can. Obviously, you want to look fantastic each and every time you see him but that certainly doesn’t mean you need to go on a crash diet or change your hairstyle. You just need to put in some effort to look as beautiful as you can each time you know you’ll see him. Also, be more positive and see the world for all its charm. Women who are constantly down or those who criticize continually, have trouble keeping and maintaining long lasting, fulfilling relationships.
Also, be as available emotionally as you can be to him. Don’t take his admission that he’s not in love with you too hard. Think of it as a wake-up call for you to put more time and effort into the relationship. Use this as a springboard to transform your relationship and make it better than it’s ever been before.
Every woman has the power to make her man fall in love with her. You can have a deep, undying emotional connection with him.
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