“I broke up with my boyfriend and I miss him.” You’ve said it and you regret what happened. You had no idea, at the time, that you’d come to miss him so much. You felt the break up was the right thing to do. After all, the two of you had your fair share of problems and things weren’t getting any better. You assumed that by breaking up, you’d be able to forget about him and move on. That hasn’t been the case at all. In fact, you miss him terribly. You long for him and you’ve just now come to the realization that he’s the guy for you. So, what now? How are you supposed to turn back time to get him back in love with you? You can’t. It’s impossible. What you can do is ensure your future is with him. Just because you dumped him doesn’t mean you can’t ever get him back again.
It’s natural to have regrets after the end of a relationship. We all do. Before you launch into a full scale attack to win back your boyfriend you must decide whether or not it’s truly what you want. You have to separate your feelings of loneliness and love. If you feel that you may just want him back because you’re lonely, that isn’t the right motivation. You’ll end up breaking up again in short order. If you truly feel that you still love the man and you can’t imagine being with anyone else, that’s a different story. You owe it to him and to you to try and win back his heart.
The first step you have to take is very straightforward and simple. You need to tell him that you regret the break up. Be clear about this. Try to do it when you’re not feeling as though you’re going to collapse emotionally. You want to appear strong and determined. Explain that you feel now that you made a mistake and that you deeply regret hurting him. Don’t expect him to come running back into your arms. It’s a genuine and strong first step though.
You also have to show him that you’ve learned from your mistakes. Be a better person now than you were when you two were dating. Be kinder to him and more compassionate. Become a good friend to your ex and slowly work on rebuilding the broken bond.
If he sees you as someone who is trying hard to better herself and move past her mistake, he’ll be open to something more with you again. Just remember not to push him too hard too soon. Take it slow and allow him to come back to you on his terms.
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