You want to make him your man again. Who could blame you? He’s everything you’ve ever wanted in a partner and since the break up you’ve felt nothing but sadness and emptiness. You’ve heard all the advice that suggests that once a relationship falls apart it’s best to walk away for good, but how can you? You owe it to yourself and to your ex to try and put the pieces back together again. The problem with that is you don’t know what to do to start. You could just call him up and tell him that you’re still madly in love with him, but is that the best route to take?
If you want to make him your man again you’re going to start by ensuring the past is in the past. The biggest challenge many couples face when they attempt to get back together is the past constantly pops up and haunts their new relationship. They have so many bad feelings still in the mix that they just can’t accept. Inevitably the new attempt to be together ends up failing because of that. That’s why you need to take the initiative to change that right now. The first step is a simple apology. One of you needs to swallow your pride and do it. It may as well be you.
Reinventing yourself may seem a little much but when you want to make your boyfriend yours again you have to be willing to do just about anything. Obviously completely changing your personality or dramatically altering the way you look won’t win him back. It may briefly catch his eye but that’s not going to help you in the long term re-establish a strong connection with him. Instead, you need to reinvent yourself by focusing on your strengths and embracing your weaknesses. This is all about gaining more self confidence and showing your boyfriend that you’re still very much the woman he initially fell in love with and couldn’t get enough of.
Being a little standoffish is going to feel completely wrong when you’re trying to reconnect with an old lover but it works amazingly well. It’s all based on the principle of playing hard to get. If you’re not chasing after your boyfriend like a lovesick puppy dog, he’s more likely to pay attention to you. As much as we may love the idea of a man throwing himself at our feet in an effort to win us back, men don’t view it the same way. He wants and needs you to be a challenge, so don’t chase him and you’ll find he’ll be the one chasing after you.
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