You should reject your ex boyfriend if you want him back. It’s a bold statement, isn’t it? After all, if the man put in the effort to dump you, why in the world would you dump him? It seems silly, right? It’s actually not at all. Most women go into the process of trying to get a boyfriend back with blinders on. They think they need to romance him back into their arms. It seems logical to us because it’s how we would want him to act when he’s trying to get us back. Men aren’t the same as us in how they deal with the pain of a break up. If you are serious about getting the man to consider another shot at a relationship with you, you have to start thinking more like him.
Men are very concise and direct in how they deal with emotional situations. Most men aren’t about drawing things out or making the other person guess what’s going on. It’s not about games to a man at all. When he wants to end a relationship he’ll get right down to business and before you know it, you’re dumped.
When a man dumps a woman, she feels this instant sense of rejection. It’s overwhelming. Unfortunately, you already know that all too well. It’s that rejection that pushes you to want him back so desperately. It’s a feeling that you can’t shake, regardless of what you do. The only real remedy for it is to be back with your boyfriend again.
That’s the same reaction men generally have when they are rejected. Their male pride jumps into action and they feel driven to show the woman who rejected them why she made a mistake. You’re going to use that knowledge of men to your advantage right now.
You’re going to have to draw on all your personal strength if you want to do this right. You may think that you can’t be strong given the fact that your no longer with your ex, but this is something you have to do if you hope to change that. Give yourself small pep talks every day. Make a list of why you’re the best girlfriend for him. Do whatever it takes to get yourself to a place where you feel strong enough to reject him.
The rejection itself is fairly simple and should be quick. You just need to call him up on a day when you feel fearless and you know you won’t break down. When he answers, be friendly and make a little chit chat. Then launch into your rejection of him. Keep it short and sweet and say something to the effect of “I just wanted to thank you for helping me see that the break up was the best thing possible for both of us.” Then leave it at that. End the conversation after you wish him well.
That one sentence will eat away at your ex boyfriend’s ego over time. He’ll suddenly see you as a renewed challenge in his life. If you don’t him, he’ll want you. It’s all about taking away what he thinks he still has.
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