“My boyfriend walked out on me, now what?” That is always said by a woman who is feeling a mixture of confusion and panic. We all know that relationships aren’t always ideal. Problems arise, conflicts crop up and you work together to resolve them. When one person suddenly decides they no longer want to try, it’s devastating to the other. What exactly are you supposed to do with all that love and devotion you’re feeling? You can’t just pack it up and expect to move on and meet someone else. No. You have to follow your heart and do what’s right for you. Even though right now it feels like you’ve been tossed aside, don’t let that deter you from what you know is your future. If you love him, you owe it to yourself to try and get him back.
Before you launch into an all out plan to get your man back consider why he walked out. Obviously, something within the relationship wasn’t working for him anymore. Did you two have an argument right before he dumped you? Have you been squabbling over some issue for the past few weeks? Or has your relationship slowly changed from that of a hot, passionate couple to best friends or roommates? Something definitely changed enough that your boyfriend no longer felt being in a relationship with you was what he wanted or needed. Be honest with yourself and the situation as you think about why that is.
Once you’ve determined what happened to cause the relationship to crash and burn, your job is to fix it. You have one chance to do this. If you don’t handle things just the right way you run the risk of pushing him so far away emotionally that the relationship won’t be in a position to be saved.
Here’s the step-by-step on what you need to do now. Apologize first for your actions before the break up. None of us are perfect and even though you were the one who was dumped, things weren’t all rosy between you two. Show your ex what a mature and responsible woman you are by saying you’re sorry. Take a page from the male play book and keep this very to the point. Just apologize and drop it.
They say that living well is the best revenge and it’s also a fantastic way to get a man back. The next step in your plan to reunite with him is to make yourself the top priority. He’s expecting you to devote your life to trying to get him back. Don’t play into that. Instead, leave the relationship behind you temporarily and instead spoil yourself. Go out and do the things you love. Get your hair done, plan for a manicure or spend some time with family.
By holding your head up high and showing your ex that you can survive without him, you’ll actually be attracting him back. He doesn’t want to have to face the fact that you can and will make it without him. He’ll want to show you just how much you really do need him and that’s what will drive him to want you back.
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