“I want my husband to fall back in love with me.” That’s a hard statement for any woman to make. It involves recognizing that the man you love and adore just doesn’t feel the same way about you anymore. We all know that marriage often changes the once passionate dynamic that existed. Gone are the days when you two would spend hours staring into each other’s eyes and talking about your dreams for the future. That’s all been replaced by having to work to pay the bills and tending to the needs of the kids. Many women in this position just simply give up and walk away. They believe that the love their husband once felt is gone for good. It’s not. You can rekindle his desire and adoration for you and it’s easier than you think.
In order to get your husband to fall back in love with you, you have to take an honest look at the state of the relationship today. You have to genuinely admit how you’ve been treating your husband and likewise how he’s been treating you. Many women fall into a pattern of taking their husbands for granted once the children arrive. Obviously kids take a great deal of focus and energy but if you’ve allowed your one-on-one relationship with your spouse to fall by the wayside, the consequences will be disastrous. Make the time to spend with your husband every day. It doesn’t have to be for hours. It just has to be uninterrupted, quality time.
You should also make an effort to talk more with your husband about what’s important in his life. We sometimes mistake our husband’s feelings for being something other than what they are. You may believe that he’s fallen out of love with you when in actuality he’s just distanced himself emotionally. The way to mend this is to talk with him. You do need to be open and willing to listen to what he has to say. Some of it may sting a bit but try to view it as a productive way to rebuild the marriage. Absorb what he tells you and learn from it. Talking in this manner on a regular basis will help your husband to feel closer to you all over again.
No one ever said that romance has to die after you get married. Take the bull by the horns in the romance department and start sweeping your husband off his feet. Even doing small things for him can bridge the emotional gap that has developed between the two of you. Often in a relationship if the woman starts making an effort to treat her husband the way she did when they first met, he’ll follow suit.
Specific things you do and say can compel your husband to appreciate and love you more.
Saying or doing the wrong thing can actually cause him to feel even more distant from you. You can make your husband fall even deeper in love with you than when you two first married.