Loving an ex boyfriend is something many of us are familiar with. It’s heart wrenching to no longer be with the man you believe is your soul mate. Many women decide to let fate take its course and they make an effort to move ahead without their boyfriend. Others, those who aren’t willing to give up so easily, do everything in their power to get their man back. If you are one of these women and you believe in your heart your boyfriend is the guy for you, there are some tips that will help you with winning him back.
The first thing you must remember when you are thinking about winning him back is to not play the emotion card too often. It’s so easy to become overly emotional when talking to your ex boyfriend. It’s not uncommon for a woman to end up in tears on the phone calling her ex, emailing him or driving by his house night after night. None of these things will help you in any way if your goal is to get him back. In fact, they will only hinder things. You must keep your emotions under control so he doesn’t label you as emotionally unstable or desperate.
One of the best techniques for winning him back is a bit surprising but very effective. If you can put on a happy face and appear to accept the break up, even embrace it, you’ll stand a much better chance of getting your man’s love back. Rejection is a powerful emotion and it drives us to do certain things that we normally wouldn’t do. That’s part of what is behind your desperate need to get him back. You feel rejected. Therefore you need to take that feeling from your shoulders and place it on his. Tell him that you’ve also been thinking about a split. If you can remain calm and collected while doing this, you’ll notice a shift in how he treats you almost instantly. He’ll feel rejected and he’ll be the one wanting you back.