If you’re still head over heels in love with your ex boyfriend you’ve probably been wondering how to get him to come back to you. Anytime a woman is in love with a man and the relationship has ended, she secretly, and sometimes not so secretly, wishes there was a magic spell she could cast that would make him fall instantly back in love with her again. Unfortunately, we all know that’s not reality. You don’t have to completely give up on him though. There are ways to get back the man you love and they’re a lot easier than you may think.
Understanding how to get him to come back with you begins with recognizing that tears and pleading just aren’t going to cut it. As women, our initial reaction when we lose the man we love is to panic. This means we get overly emotional and mistakenly believe that calling our ex while we’re crying is a good idea. Men don’t respond to this type of behavior. If anything, it’s going to make him feel justified in breaking up with you. You have to play it calm and cool if you want to get him back. That means you have to put on a happy face and pretend to be okay with the break up. If you can do that you’ve taken the first big step towards getting him back.
Another thing you must do if you are serious about winning back his love is to disappear from his life completely for a few weeks. You’re probably wondering how this is going to reignite his desire for you, but it works. If a man knows that you’re sitting patiently waiting for him to come back to you, he’s not going to come back. On the other hand, if he suddenly realizes you are nowhere to be seen and he hasn’t heard from you in weeks, he’s going to believe you’ve gotten over him. This will make him feel rejected, and that’s exactly what you want. Once he feels that it won’t be long before he comes looking for you trying to win you back.