“Help, my boyfriend dumped me. How do I get him back?” This is a phrase that unfortunately too many women find themselves saying on a daily basis. Breakups can be torturous and for any woman who is still in love with her ex, the path forward is even more painful. It’s confusing and disheartening when you’re no longer with the man you love most in the world. Although most of your friends have probably told you to just move on and find someone else, you know that it’s just not that easy. If you don’t want to live a life filled with regrets and thoughts of what if, now is the time to get busy getting back the man you adore.
The very first thing you have to do to get your boyfriend back after he dumped you is stop crying. That seems impossible but it’s not. Especially if you consider the fact that being overly emotional can actually ruin any chance you have of a future with him. As women we approach a situation like this much differently than a man would. To us, if our ex called us crying hysterically telling us he needed us, our hearts would melt and we’d take him back without a second thought. Men aren’t anything like this. If you pour your heart out to a man right after a break up he’s going to label you as desperate and emotionally unstable. He’ll find that very unappealing and he’ll actually feel justified in the break up. Keep your emotions under wraps whenever you come in contact with him.
The next part of the best plan to get your man back is an extension of keeping yourself calm. If you can muster up the courage to pretend as though you accept the break up, you stand a great chance of getting him back. Although this seems counterintuitive to us women, it plays right into an important trigger in a man’s mind. Whenever a person feels rejected, they want to get rid of that feeling as quickly as possible. The only real way to do that is to be accepted by the person who broke up with them. That’s one of the reasons you feel so driven to get him back. One phrase alone can help you get him back. Tell him that you were also considering a break, then wish him well and walk away. He won’t be able to stop thinking about you. It may take a few weeks for him to contact you again, but he will. Try it. You’ll be amazed by how well it really does work.