To get an old boyfriend back isn’t nearly as difficult as it seems. When a relationship ends both parties automatically assume that they need to go their separate ways. If you still love your ex boyfriend, leaving him behind and moving on with your life can be almost impossible. You can get him back if you are determined and focused though.
In order to get an old boyfriend back you have to remember one thing in particular and that’s to always be in control of your emotions. Most women let their emotions guide them after a split and the results are less than complimentary to them. If you call your ex boyfriend crying and begging him to come back to you all that you are accomplishing is that you’re making yourself appear desperate to him. He’s not going to be touched by your undying devotion. He’s not going to instantly think he can’t live without you. Instead he’s going to decide that you are too emotionally unstable to be in any relationship with and he’ll cut off all ties with you completely.
One thing that every woman who wants to get an old boyfriend back must do is move on with her life. Even if it’s only for appearances sake, this is something that you have to do. You need to make your old boyfriend believe that you are okay and even better off without him. To do this you should focus on things that you enjoy doing. That can range from going out with girlfriends to starting a new career path. You need your ex to notice this but in a very subtle way. A great way to ensure this happens is to keep in contact with his friends. They’ll innocently convey the message to him that you’re doing great without him. Once he realizes this he’ll sit up and take notice. Men want to be the focal point of our lives and they want us to mourn the break up. If he doesn’t believe this is the case anymore, he’ll feel the need to get in touch to see how you’re really doing. When he does play it cool and act as if you’ve really moved on. You want to reignite the drive in him to get you back.